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Should I break up with this guy to keep my friend?

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Question - (29 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2011)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

0k. My friend was dating this guy who is 2yearz older than me and my friend, there was no problem at that time. Until the guy dumped my friend because she was cheating with a guy i never heard of. Then after 1 year, the guy told me that he had feelings for me from the first day we met, and that s the reason why he dumped my friend. I felt for it and now we are dating. We have been dating for about three months now and my friend knows about it. She said she didnt have a problem with us dating but i feel like she does, because we dont hang out as much as we used to, we bearly talk to eachother its like she s mad at me. At the other hand my b.f(my friend s ex) an i s relationship is not so perfect. We dumped eachother twice and got back 2gether. I love this guy but dont kn0w what to do n0w. Should i dump him 4gud just 2 make my friend happy, or should i just focus on my relati0nship with him?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 April 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntWell I think if you value your friendship with this girl you would finish it with him. Its the golden rule in friendship and that is never to get with a friends ex. I guess she is saying she doesnt care because she doesnt want him to know that she does care. But it must be hard for her having one of her friends date her ex.

Talk to her and ask her to be honest with you and tell her you will do anything for her she just needs to talk to you and tell you why she is being so distant.

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