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writes:hey my boyfriend is going to university soon and i love him so much :( but i dont know if to break it off as its most likely he will find somebody else or the travelin will get in the way what should i do ? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): hey, i wouldn't break up with ur bf just because he is going to uni soon... i'm in a similar position, i hav really fallen for my boyfriend, n its gonna b so difficult being apart from him. i mean he did it for me wen i was in my first yr of uni so i dont see y i shdnt give him the same space and trust that he gave me. as someone else said, u need to focus a bit more on the positives... imagine all the times u will get to see him, getting ready, spending QUALITY time together not jus for the sake of it. if u both want it to work then it will. hope everything goes ok for u. ps. try not to b jealous of all the new people he will talk about... learn to trust him, n the only way to do that in my opinion is to feel gd n confident in urself! jus try n find the right balance of being there for him yet giving him his space. let him miss u a bit. if he hasnt left for uni yet, try making the last few days u spend with each other really gd, so ur strong n stable before he goes off to uni. i think i'm gettin the hang of it now, giving him space etc. if u really want it, n u love someone that much, u will be fine. there may be changes, but thats life. "Love is like a river, it will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle." x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Wait and see. Don't just give it up just like that. The distance should be no problem if you love him, but if it appears to be a problem in the end then I guess you should break up. But wait and see.From: The li'l helper.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 September 2007):
 If you love your boyfriend and he loves you then there is no reason why you should split up from him. I think you are focusing on negatives to much, like he will meet someone else, or the travelling will get in the way. Instead focus on positive things, like he is going to get a good education, to after get a good job. When you see him you will have so much love to give him, because absence really does make the heart grow fonder.Take care xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Why would you break up when there is currently no reason to? If the situation arises where things have gone wrong then that is the time to call it a day - you never know it may work out well and your fears may be unfounded - give it a chance unless there are other reasons why you do not want to continue to be with him?
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reader, carchick +, writes (3 September 2007):
 u shouldnt break up with him just coz hes going to uni if u love him.but the distance wont be that much of a problem coz u can call him text him nd even right to him so if u anymore advice just ask good luck
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