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Should we wait for better facilities, before having first time sex?

Q.   right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. ...

A.   18 July 2009: dont even read that website ... , its not worth your time...I know your going to loose your virginity with this girl already. Trust ... Im 17 and I know how we think you know your hormones have kicked in and i bet your thinking about her every ... (read in full...)

Ex boyfriend is charging me with vandalism!

Q.   Long story short, my bf cheated on me. i didnt know how to deal with this, ive been upset for the last two weeks so in a drunken rage i took red spray paint to his door (he has a door that leads outside) and painted CHEATER on it really big it felt ...

A.   17 July 2009: No proof = no charge. Say you didnt do it dont admit to it , say that he has plenty of girl freinds give him a bad history and that it could have been any other girl angry at him , look innocent and cry if you can. ALWAYS SAY NO!.... if the judge ... (read in full...)

How do condom sizing work?

Q.   very quick question, how big does the penis have to be (length and girth) to fit a normal condom? ...

A.   15 July 2009:  well actually as long as its thick enough it will stay on but theres condoms that are smaller in thickness like Trojan Ultra Thin.. its not for an ultra thin penis it just says that because that latex is thin but for some reason its smaller then ... (read in full...)

Should I stay? Or get rid of the hoe?

Q.   Ok here is the story I have been dating this girl for two yrs and she hasn't ever spent any real time wit me. if im lucky I get to see her lik 5 hrs every 2 weeks and she says she is busy but she will cancel or plans to make time for her friends and ...

A.   29 June 2009:  it sounds like shes playin you.. haha.. a girl that ditches you .. never has time for you?.. either that or shes just not that interested in you... screw her why you chasing her for?.. let her chase u if she even does and if she does she will feel ... (read in full...)

How do you stay happy after a breakup?

Q.   What are some ways to keep yourself happy and going, after breaking up with somebody? I'm afraid of my future with my boyfriend and I'm afraid that if we do call it quits I will become depressed again. As we broke up before about four months ago,...

A.   29 June 2009: Stay active , go out , talk to more freinds have fun ... you didnt say what he does to u but if its leading you to break up with him then it must be bad so what ever it is hes probably not worth your time .. ... (read in full...)

She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out ...

A.   29 June 2009: Dont let these people tell you that your a control freak first off your not a control freak your doing whats right , your completly right every guy does kind of want to get into girls pants and if its 3 on 3 then its obviously meant to be they had ... (read in full...)

I feel utterly alone and worthless and I don't know how to make it go away. Can someone tell me what to do?

Q.   I think I have a big problem. All I feel is loneliness. My father and mother have been split since before I was born. My dad has this girlfriend who treats him like crap and talks about me and my sister all the time. He always tells us what she says ...

A.   29 June 2009: Wheres your mom? ... , same thing with me my mother split from my dad and even though I see him once every 2 years he hardly shows me love .. I think if this man loves me then why doesn't he quit doing drugs , and start actually acting like he cares ... (read in full...)

Why does this sound happen? It's so embarrassing!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were having sex, and we've recently tried doggy style and the most EMBARRASSING thing happened.. I had a vaginal fart?!?! It was so embarrassing, I didn't know what to do! I just laughed and he laughed too but he continued. It ...

A.   29 June 2009: Its called a queef.. it happens when air goes into your vagina when hes thrusting in and out ... its normal happened to me a couple of times.... (read in full...)

Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?

Q.   Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and ...

A.   29 June 2009: ..Mmmm I cant speak for you or your boy freind because idk if you go out with other guys and if you do go out with other guys then its only fair for him to go out with other girls such as katie. But if your like me and my girl freind its kind of ... (read in full...)

I'm on the pill but he didn't use a condom. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   Could I be pregnant? Here is what happened: My period is supposed to start either today or tomorrow. I have been taking Femcon birth control pills for a year. Well, boyfriend and I had sex last week. He forgot to bring a condom, but since I am t...

A.   26 June 2009: I believe pills only have some sort of percantage of not getting you pregnant... just to be safe go to your doctor tomorrow IMMEDIATELY to make sure your not... the sooner you find out the better so you can start planning what your going to do. ... (read in full...)

Is this what normal couples do in relationships?

Q.   I'm gunna try to make this short. Basically I feel I'm horrible with relationships mainly because I overthink and overreact. So I just want to know if I'm reading to much into this. My ex and I are going back out after awhile of being broken up ...

A.   26 June 2009: Mmmmm honestly ... what I think is that he does not talk to alot of girls your probably one of the few girls he talks to and since hes 18 and out of high school hes probably like damn I need someone to talk to and then he turns to you... , If you ... (read in full...)

Why does he keep looking at other girls?

Q.   heres my problem my boyfriend keeps looking at other chicks while he's with me and its so disrespectful even thought am so good looking girl i really dont wanna ask him to stop it because i dont wanna look not confident, i was wondering if there is ...

A.   26 June 2009: No dont leave him .. Looking is just looking its not like hes touching them or trying to talk to them.. but what you should do is just talk to him and tell him that it bothers you to atleast do it when your not there.. because believe it or not just ... (read in full...)

Beautiful with a small chest...is this a problem (just asking)

Q.   Beautiful with a small chest...is that a problem? Just asking because... I recently found out that my boyfriend of pretty much 4 years and the father of my child has a big breast porn fetish that he has been hiding for some time. When I leave, he...

A.   26 June 2009: Man .... I know im young and you might think whats 17 year old know about marriage?? ... but the thing is thats how guys are you know like I mean my girl freind right now at this moment is skinny has a nice curve and does not have big breast... , ... (read in full...)

How do I show him that I am meant for him?

Q.   I'm so confused! Me and my boyfriend of 1 and 1/2 months broke up on the 18th. I was really crushed and still am to this day. It was so unexpected ;( He told me he wasn't ready to be with me because he was hurt too much before. I told him I was ...

A.   26 June 2009: Let go but still talk to him , I dont know what kind of situation you are in because I am not you but in a guys point of a view when he tells a girl that stuff the only reason "I" would say that is because I don't want to hurt the girl by telling ... (read in full...)

How come I can't let this first love go?

Q.   My ex is my best friend. We still talk all the time about everything. He's my source of advice and my best confidante. He keeps me grounded. He understands me so perfectly and can read my every mood or action. I don't know how he does it. It's lik...

A.   26 June 2009: Yes you are using them... , but your using them to your advantage... which is no good.. because your hurting them if they like you ... , for example if a guy broke up with his girl and got hurt and did the same thing that you did just get with ... (read in full...)

He says he's too big

Q.   me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...

A.   25 June 2009: Yeah man you dont really gotta read that big ass article on being a virgin.. yes it is true that his dick might be to big to go in you because your a virgin so that means your hole is really really tight and when he fits it in there yes it is gonna ... (read in full...)

I don't feel like I used to feel about her

Q.   Hi all, First the background. I've been dating my g/f for about ten months now so we are pretty serious, firstly I asked her out but as she'd been hurt before she said no and just wanted to remain friends, but the fact I actaully did stay m8s ...

A.   25 June 2009: break up with her... you wouldnt like it if another girl that you "loved" pretended she loved you back..... , I did it to my ex girl i stayed with her even thhough i didnt like her because I didnt want to break her heart... , but at the end it was ... (read in full...)

He is getting married and he won't leave me alone!

Q.   I have a big problem. I have worked at my job for almost 10 years. Up until 2007, I had never dated anybody that I worked with, because I was not interested and I don't think its a good ideal. Most people that tried to talk to me were up to no good ...

A.   25 June 2009: BEst thing to do is ... get another job , either that or you can tell your boss and get him fired for harassment.. but then again if you did that if he really is crazy he would try doing something to you or bother you for a really long time.... , So ... (read in full...)

I was nosing around on his phone and found something I wasn't expecting! Any ideas?

Q.   hi again! i recently posted about me and my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year, but we split up for a month at one point and 2 weeks not that long ago. when we broke up the first time, something happened with him and another ...

A.   25 June 2009: Yeah it might ruin your relationship if he found out .. but if I where your boy freind I would like to know if you did date any other guys... just to feel confident that my girl is faithful and tells me the truth.. if you do tell him that you saw ... (read in full...)

I need help with this dream...

Q.   Well, this dream was very confusing, so I really hope you can help me out. Ok, my ex-husband, his bestfriend, and myself were in the in living room. They were sitting on the floor watching T.V.. I was on the couch and in that very second, they wer...

A.   24 June 2009: Well every time I have a weird dream I cant explain I look for it on a website , and sometimes it says things that are reasonable ... this is something it said similar to your dream To see others masturbating in your dreams, denotes your anx... (read in full...)

My friends are advising me to cut her off but I'm not sure what to do...

Q.   So I am currently seeing this girl... we both expressed our feelings towards each other recently and she really adores me and she admitted that she found happiness with me, honestly she is everything I ever wanted, but she has some problems in her ...

A.   24 June 2009: Babies cause drama... But if you feel like asking her out is the right thing to do then dont let your friends talk down on you its not what they think of her its what YOU know ... YOU talk to her they dont they dont know how YOU feel..... If she ... (read in full...)

I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpo...

A.   24 June 2009: It doesn't really matter as long as your boy friend is by your side ... what your boy freind said after they laughed should make you proud because it just means your boy freind does not care about those people he likes YOU for who YOU are... not for ... (read in full...)

I was nosing around on his phone and found something I wasn't expecting! Any ideas?

Q.   hi again! i recently posted about me and my boyfriend,we have been together for almost a year, but we split up for a month at one point and 2 weeks not that long ago. when we broke up the first time, something happened with him and another ...

A.   21 June 2009: he probably just saved the number randomly after seeing it on your phone. ive done it. ... (read in full...)

I feel horribly left out with no Love life and I have everything going for me!

Q.   Hi I am a very athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with some...

A.   21 June 2009: You could do what satin said , or you can go out and try to be confident about your self you sound like your pretty confident right now i mean what girl what like a fit guy hell yeah girls like that shit.. haha , go up to some girls at your school ... (read in full...)

Should I ask him out now, or wait awhile?

Q.   me and this guy have been talking everyday, all day we kiss, hold hands, hes told me he really likes me, plus weve been making long term plans, and like 3 days ago he told me that he had gotten drunk[he never drinks and neither do i] and he kept tel...

A.   21 June 2009: I agree with the anonymous guy down there... just ask him whats he looking for you know and if he says hes looking for something serious then just let him know the same and that your not looking for a bad guy and blah blah... but DONT ask him out , ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend became so committed and loving after seeing his ex during our breakup?

Q.   My BF and I once broke up about 6 months ago, and after two months later he came back. During our being apart, he had some relationship with one of his exes - not sure it was a relationship or just sex. His ex wanted him back when we were broken up, ...

A.   20 June 2009: maybe he realized how much he liked u during that time apart. ... (read in full...)

I haven't heard from in a day, is that a bad thing?

Q.   I've been going out with this guy for 2 months. We already had sex, but last weekend we got got wasted, we had sex again but he only had 1 condom, after he still wanted more nd he asked if i can give him head but i didnt have 2 i didnt want to (he ...

A.   1 June 2009: obviously the person who just answered on top of me that has said he might be busy , is a girl. Why? Because girls like to think like that. It can be 2 things He COULD be busy. Or it could be that he lost respect for you most guys arent to serious ... (read in full...)

The annoying thing on my mind

Q.   Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we ar...

A.   1 June 2009: Im 17 my self ... , and to tell you the truth my mom is sort of the same way , she does not really care about me having sex with other girls but she always tells me to becareful because she knows im not emotionally and stable enough to support a ... (read in full...)

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