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Should he make more noise when he comes?

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Question - (8 February 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I always need to release the sexual pleasure/tension obtained during intercourse by crying out and moaning etc. My boyfriend says nothing but sweats like mad-his only noise is a series of gasps when he orgasms.Is this normal for a man as he's only been my sole sexual mate and can't compare with another man?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

My last boyfriend was very noisy, and he used to twitch and shake so much after he came that he'd sometimes even fall off the bed. It was way too much and he was a bit of a drama queen in general so I think it was mostly put on. Ugh! My current boyfriend is very quiet and makes practically no noise. I did tell him once that I like to know when he's about to come so we can try and come together, so he does that now. He seemed a little uncomfortable at first but now he always does it and it's often a bit huffy and puffy when he says it and that little bit of noise just in the lead up to the grand finale is a real turn on. I on the other hand have had to learn to be a little quieter as I have been heard by neighbours once or twice and it's highly embarrassing!

So in summary, guys who make TOO much noise are actually worse, it's cringe-worthy :) Think of a subtle way to ask your guy to let you know he's feeling good during sex.

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A male reader, Moviefan United States +, writes (8 February 2008):

Moviefan agony auntWe are not very expressive on that matter you will probably get groans or slight vocal sounds nothing massive like what you do. And often times we shot it more physically then anything. So dont worry its normal.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (8 February 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIs it not grand that there are so many different kinds of flowers in the world? All of them are natural, although some are a mix.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntSome men grasps , some groans ,some hiss and some pants.

The men can only do single task unlike the multi tasking women. If he is going to shout, he may lose some strength down below.LOL!

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A female reader, Serinity United States +, writes (8 February 2008):

Serinity agony auntYes honey, it's very normal. Men aren't as vocal as us ladies when it comes to sex.

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