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writes: I got invited on a date with this guy and I'm meeting him at his house. He said we could have some fun and I put my foot down, he said he wouldn't try to make me do anything I didn't wanna do. He says he doesn't want anything serious and only a bit of harmless fun. He also asked me what I'd do if he moved my hand onto his crotch. I don't feel ready to do anything serious especially if he only wants a bit of fun. I don't know what to do I want to go and only take it as far as I want but I'm worried it could go farther than I want and leave me with really big regrets. I really like him so don't want to not turn up at all, should I go to his or just go on the date without going to his ? Or could I go to his and just say when. Please it's tomorrow and I am really scared and nervous. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 I would not go... always trust your gut feelings.
he's going to try to get you to do stuff
if he asks you again what you will do if he puts your hand on his crotch tell him you will squeeze like you are wringing out a sponge and not stop till he passes out.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 July 2011):
 Tell him your father/mother insists that his father/mother call and verify that they will be home to chaperone when you come over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): Do not go.He has every intention of trying to take advantage of you.
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 How long have you known this guy?Anyway, the point is, you are not ready to be going to his house so don't go. Believe me, this is a classic way of how guys lure you to bed especially if it's their house. And who knows what other things he is capable to do. The moment you are alone with him, he will try to force you to do what he likes and you will find it difficult to say no.This is how rape happens. I am sorry to be concluding on the negative side but it is just not safe for you.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (25 July 2011):
 You should not go.
You are nervous and scared. Listen to your instincts.
He has already TOLD you he wants to be sexual, who knows if he will keep his word and respect your boundaries.
You do not sound like you can trust him, so is that someone you really SHOULD like that much?
Stay home dear and hang out with real friends.
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