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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've got a huge lot of confusion. I've been extremely close friends with this girl I've known since we were 3 and I've always had a major crush on her. I asked her out when I was 14 and she said she didn't want to ruin the friendship....that's fine......but for the past year or so, we've been getting a lot closer. Like if we're watching a film, or even just chatting, she'll be getting really close and cuddling me. We even kissed a few months back as well. So I asked her if that meant that she liked me, and she just mumbled a load of stuff I couldn't understand because she wasn't making sense at all, but then she eventually said the same answer of "I don't want to ruin our friendship". But what I want to know is, what should I do? I really want to ask her out because I really like her, and she seems to be giving off the same signals, but it's just so confusing, considering she'll probably just give me the same answer as before :/
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 February 2010):
She has made it clear that this will go no further than a friendship. You have to try and move on from her, so make sure you're hanging out with other people and meeting new people, and also make sure you focus on yourself and find hobbies you can do.
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