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I'd been married for 5 years and I can't stop thinking of other women.

Q.   I'd been married for 5 years and I can't stop thinking of other women. Sometimes when I'm making love to my wife start thinking of other women. It's not helping having so many (hot) co-workers flirting with me. Me and my wife went to the mall toge...

A.   12 November 2008: Haha well it is not uncommon to think about other women, but the fact of the matter you have to stop or at least try. If you want to make it up to her I would say stop looking at other women, especially when you are with her! If you love her enough ... (read in full...)

Did kissing that guy make him think I am a slut?

Q.   Hi I was dating a guy who always told me he had a lot of respect for me and always held me in high regard from other girls he dated but then we broke up cuz he couldn't committ but has been calling me anyway. I was avoiding the calls since he ...

A.   12 November 2008: I've been in that position and that happen to me recently. My girlfriend did that to me which is now my ex, but we all got together at a friends house and got really drunk. She ended up making out with my good friend and I was really mad and ... (read in full...)

She's afraid to fall in love!

Q.   Hey everyone, well the problem is that I have known this girl for a good bit and we've been the best of friends and I have been wanting to take it to the next level and have a relationship with her. The problem is she is afraid to fall in love!! ...

A.   12 November 2008: I would also like to add she has NEVER had a serious relationship! And this would be her first serious relationship! Thanks to those who help!... (read in full...)

I'm a normal teenage girl, but I need to get out. Should I move or runaway?

Q.   I'm a not a normal teenaged girl....I'm on the honour roll at school, I've never had a detention, I've never done drugs or drank alcohol, I do my chores when I'm told to, I watch my three younger siblings, which includes getting them ready for ...

A.   12 November 2008: Don't worry about your step-father telling you you're a spoiled brat, It's amazing how other people try to put others down because their life sucks. Try to see if your mom can get a job and then maybe, just maybe you and her could buy an apartment ... (read in full...)

Fingering and hand jobs. What's wrong and doesn't he get disgusted?

Q.   Okay my boyfriend started fingering me about a week ago. I was just wondering: doesn't he get disgusted? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and it seems kinda gross thinking about the fact that my vaginal juices are on his fingers. How do you ...

A.   12 November 2008: The only logical reason why I would think he would pull away is that he thinks you would be grossed out if he just came all over your hand. If you want to find the truth, the best thing to do is ask him. As a guy, I love to finger my girlfrie... (read in full...)

He is nice to everyone else, but acts like a jerk towards me. Why?

Q.   There is this one guy that acts strange around me. He talks to my friends and not to me. My friends add him as a friend on Facebook, and he accepts them, but when I add him, he ignores me. (he does not even know my friends). He is nice to everyone ...

A.   12 November 2008: It just seems there is not sufficient detail on the situation? Have you and him been in a relationship or anything? Some men pretend to act like jerks to get the girl to like you even more. I do not know how this works, but it works somehow.... (read in full...)

How can I get my Mom to talk to a counselor?

Q.   My parents are screaming at each other everyday. Each of them tells me they can't take it anymore. I want them to go to counseling but my mom refuses. She thinks it's pointless. That this is my dad's fault. That he will never change. That ...

A.   12 November 2008: If your mother really loves you, she would do it just for you. Try your hardest to convince her to go to counseling and tell her that you want to try something new out. Tell her exactly how you feel about all the arguments that kill you every time ... (read in full...)

He makes a promise only to break it. Is it possible to trust after so many lies?

Q.   my bf and i have been in a pattern of conflict over an issue for quite some tiime. basically i find out he's done something hurtful, he promises t change, and i begin slowly to trust him again. then before long (usually 3-4 weeks later) i catc...

A.   12 November 2008: There really is not a way to trust him if he has been consistently lying to you. You would most definitely not be focusing on this all the time if he had not done it so much. Worst of all, the relationship is now being focused on trust than it is ... (read in full...)

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