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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a little bit of a weird situation with my 9 months boyfriend. He is a very wonderful guy, and he does everything to please me, but the fact that he is very introverted sometimes makes me think that he doesn't care about me, I know I am his first real relationship, he has told me over and over again that he has a lot of feelings for me and he cares about me a lot, he has always said that he has never meet anyone like myself and that I am perfect for him. I know that he has gave up time with his friends in order to spend time with me because he has a very tight schedule. We had a discussion last weekend and I lost the patience, I am very temperamental, and I told him if he couldn't be more emotional I was going to leave him, because I needed more reassurance, he told me that if I was going to leave him, if could we be, at least friends, and I told him that if I break up with him I didn't wanted to have any contact with him, he went very sad when I told him that. But then I asked him, why he is more scared with the fact that he may not have more contact with me than with the fact that I may finish the relationship. He told me that he was very worry that I would leave him, but he at least wanted to have the opportunity of be part of my life, but he doesn't want to loose contact with me. Does someone have any though about this? Does this means he doesn't care about the relationship that we had? One day after that we went out and he told me that the next time I will be in his neighborhood he was going to introduce me to his family, I know he has never take any girl to his family house. Any thoughs about all this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Hobbit22 +, writes (12 November 2008):
 WOW! You're pretty harsh then to ask such a question like "does this mean he dosen't care about the relationship he had"? He DOES CARE that is why he at least want to still be friends. in other words you are so important to him, that even if you no longer want to be his girl, then he WANTS you in his life, because he thinks you are THAT special. Intorducing you to his family is to make the relationship more concrete. Get you more involved, he wants to BE WITH YOU! if you have no desire, than don't waste his time by meeting his family and such. If you simply don't LIKE HIM in general, then don't tease him with an empty friendship! P.S. you need ot get more secure of yourself. This guy has told you over and over according to what you worte that he loves you.
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