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writes:I'm 19, been with my girlfriend who's 21, for 6 months now. All's been well up until recently.However, for the past few weeks, she's been accusing me of being jealous of her male friends.The irony? I'm not jealous, and I even get along well with most of them. In fact, I even socialise with them if/when they invite me out and get on well with them - two of them I spend time away from her with, just because they're good friends. .I know for a fact I haven't done anything wrong; besides, if I'm friends with them would they be jealous of me? OK, so there's the odd joke here and there about how "hot" each other's girlfriend's are, but no-one would seriously cheat on each other with them, that's not how our friendships work.She's even gone as far as accusing me of sleeping with Tim, one of her male friends.That's a complete joke, especially as I have known Tim well enough for 6 months now, and know his partner (he's 21, she's 23).I have tried having a heart-to-heart with her, but don't understand why she's like this, as she's normally a gentle, kind, loving woman.However, when I was round at her flat, I discovered needles with testosterone in; not snooping, they were just left out on the side by a tray of mints.Perhaps that explains it? But I don't get why she's taking testosterone shots; it seems so out-of-character for her.How can I handle this situation without it going out of hand?Andy
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (31 July 2011):
 Mmmmm tricky one given you have already tried to talk to her about her weird behaviour. Paranoia is a killer for relationships so maybe tell her if she doesn't stop being paranoid about you the relationship is headed for the rocks.
Also I would ask her about the needles.
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