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writes:This guy that dated my girlfriend once won't leave her alone and she wont let me take care of the situation as the boyfriend. When I try, she calls me annoying and tells me that it would only make things worse. All I ever wanted to do was maturely ask him to back off and that it makes us uncomfortable for him to talk to her.What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 December 2009):
You do what she says. I find it completely unattractive when a man says he'll "sort some one out."
Maybe she doesn't want some dick head of an alpha male for a boyfriend. Maybe she wants you because you respect her wishes?
Leave her to deal with it but encourage her to stand up for herself. Remind her that she can report him to the police if he doesn't listen to her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 December 2009):
Do as she says. She loves you, and if you act the big tough boyfriend who has a go, you'll look like an idiot in her eyes. She needs to know she can trust you, not watch you have a go.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (7 December 2009):
 what do you do? You respect her wishes and listen to what she is saying. She says you are annoying when you try to do the big he man stuff. Listen to what she is saying, and back off.
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