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She won't go out with me and chose my friend instead. How do I get over her?

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Question - (24 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hey. there is this girl in my school who i really love. this isnt just some girl that i fancy. i think its love as i have felt this way about her for 3 years. anyway we tried to go out together but she only did it because she felt sorry for me. it ended up with about a hundred kids pushing us together to get off with each other. we did. we sort of fell out for a few months after that and now were mates again. shes started going out with one of my friends. i have no problem with that, its just like in a lesson, i sat on the table with her. my friend - the one who isnt going out with her - swapped seats with me without my asking, and now she wants him their instead of me. this made me so jealous. is there any advice about how i can get over her because she never will go out with me - im not the best looking boy in the school to put it lighlty - thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

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thanks everyone:)

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A female reader, x-kitycatlok-x United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2008):

x-kitycatlok-x agony auntYou should tell this person how you feel about them, and if she doesn't return your feelings, try and think of how she's happy. If you love her then you'll want her happy, no matter who or what it is that is making her happy. At least she's not sad. Think of how much fun she's having and such and even though it's not you causing it, you'll want the best for her.

Wishing you the best.

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

When you allow yourself to fall in love without really getting to know the person (pubby love), your going to crash hard. Let this be a lesson. At this age to, everything is new, exiting, wishy washy, don't start taking people to serious until you reach your late teens to early 20's.

Always ask questions that will tell you who people are, questions that are important for you that when answered, will reveal that this person can meet your needs. Pay close attention to what others say so that you can be there for them. Life will flow better. Life isn't only about us, but about others to.

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