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writes: Basically, I think this girl likes me but I'm not sure. I'm 20 now and we've known each other since we were young, but never been particularly close friends. I hadn't seen her in a long time, but she's going travelling for 3 months and she invited me and some friends to her leaving party.We got incredibly drunk - where you could say or do anything without being embarrassed. She insisted on getting my phone number (I only recently got a mobile), gave me her number and email - she said I had to get in touch and she would visit me at uni. She also said that our parents thought we should get together (that's a bit odd). I told her that I really liked her, that I would like us to get together. Anyway we didn't do anything last night - I don't like the idea of getting together when both of you are out of your minds.Why do I have doubts? Well for a start we were both drunk. She has a boyfriend. Also she was really affectionate with all the blokes there.Today I decided to text her to see if she wanted to go out for a drink or somthing - no reply. I called round at her house. She was there with her boyfrind and another guy. When I was leaving she followed me out and we had a very brief chat - she said she had got the text but "I think you know the answer" - she sort of blushed when she said it. Again she said she would visit me at uni.Now of course she wasn't going to go out with me when she has a boyfriend, but I just wanted to let her know that I like her - I've never been close to having a girlfriend before and I didn't want to let fear get the better of me. She never once said explicitly that she liked me - I just want to know I havn't misread the signs.
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (18 April 2006):
Sorry, but she has a bf and has given you the answer.
What you need to ask yourself is why you are trying to go out with a woman who has shown a lack of commitment to a current bf. She is not a woman of integrity and not material for a high quality future relationship with you.
Have more self esteem and go and find yourself a nice girl.
Good luck
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