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male
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30-35,
*angly
writes:Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on her and now we are completely over. I dont know if she still loves me, she is getting on really well with her new friend who is a lad. She has blocked all contact from me, i've sent her flowers and told her how i feel by letter. She says there is no chance of us getting back together. We are meant for each other though because we have been on and off for 6 years as best friends and lovers. The past 2 years have been the best time of my life, and not having her is so painful. Does she stil love me? Will she come back to me? Should i give her time? I miss her, i was planning on marrying her when i was older. I need some help on how to win her back.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 Ignoring someone is never a surefire way. What I suggest you do is start getting over her right now. Don't be desperate, don't follow her around... but don't be mean either. You don't need to give her the cold shoulder to get her back. Just work on being happy with yourself and your life.
Move on. If she comes back, she'll come back... but in the meantime work on moving onwards.
xxIndia
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reader, Dangly +, writes (30 November 2007):
Dangly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou think ignoring her for like a month will bring her back to me?
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reader, Dangly +, writes (30 November 2007):
Dangly is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont want to move on, no girl is a match to her (in my eyes), i need to know how to get her back? a plan or something
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): You are only young so I would move on if I were you. You cant expect to stay with the first person you ever sleep with especially not when you are 16-17.
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reader, Dangly +, writes (29 November 2007):
Dangly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe joke was a joke between her and 2 of my mates and i. First one was about boobs in skl and how we expected to see them, which we obviously didnt cuz my skl is posh and boring and tight and yeah well you know. And the second was about how i named her arse trevor like 2 years ago and she said trev is all yours and i was like oo yeah, but its a joke and a load of rubbish.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Hi dude,
you are still not telling us what the joke was? Was it just a text message joke? Or something more suggestive?
This is the key really, it sounds pretty serious for her to have left you after all this time.
Maybe she feels you are not being honest with her about this joke and are dismissing it as something irrelevant but she feels very strongly about. She would hardly be likely to talk to you again if you kept insisting it was nothing when the evidence pointed to something more serious.
But again, we dont know ,you need to be more specific about the joke.
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reader, Dangly +, writes (29 November 2007):
Dangly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlets just say it was a dirty flirtacious joke, done by facebook. Enough to make her think it was cheating.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 November 2007):
Hey there,
To give you more advice, I have to know what this "joke" was. Then I can tell you exactly how to tackle your problem!!
xxIndia
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reader, Dangly +, writes (29 November 2007):
Dangly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi, she told her that it was a joke, but my ex gf is stubborn and ignorant (i love her tho, i find everything cute about her). She doesnt believe what she doesnt want to hear. I have been going out with her on and off since me and her were 12 years old. Do you think its time to move on? or do you reckon i should keep trying? there were so many things i wanted to do with her including a picnic under the stars in the country side which i had planned for next spring.
Oh my friend who is a girl, i dont talk to anymore. it happened during the summer, and she changed after it, but my gf only just found out.
If tried everything to get her back. I dont know how to get my girl back, what would a woman or possibly man with the same experience, suggest? or should i just move on. Plus my gf is gorgeous, well to me anyway, no other girl appeals to me, at the moment anyway.
any help is appreciated
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 November 2007):
Hi sweetness,
Where is your friend on this? I think that your girl friend (who the joke was with) should talk to your ex and assure her that the joke was nothing more than a joke. She should let your ex know that she has no questionable intentions with you and that you really love her sincerely and that she thinks if you two are going to break up, if shouldn't be over her and something so silly.
That is what I think...
xxIndia
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