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Concerned or controlling?

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Question - (11 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2007)
A male Nigeria age 16-17, prettyp writes:

how do guy feel if u tell them to stop drinking and smoking.do they feel u are concern or trying to control them

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A female reader, baby duck United States + , writes (12 October 2007):

baby duck agony auntMost people won't get offended if you use "I" statements, like, "I worry that drinking and smoking will make you sick" as opposed to "You should not drink and smoke because it will hurt you."

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A male reader, rcn United States + , writes (12 October 2007):

rcn agony auntIt's all in the wording you use. It can come across either way.

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