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anonymous
writes:My girlfreind is constantly putting me second best to her male and female freinds. she seems to think that i try and make her sit at home all day everyday whilst i work, but this isnt true. i dont mind her seeing her female freinds whenever she wants, but she spends more time with her male freinds than she does me! she would rather go out with them somewhere, than do anything with me, yet she still says she loves me. not only are these males a good 5 years older than her, but they also are madly in love with her, and tell her they are. she is very wealthy from her father, so dosent have to work, but she still expects me to pay for dinner everytime we go out, and books the most expensive restraunts. we have been together nearly 10 months and she is seeing these losers of freinds more and more now, up to 3 or 4 times a week, and has cut down on the amount she sees me. i have broke up with her 3 times before because of this, and she comes crying back saying shell change. i am wondering weather to end it for good!
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reader, snooki2  +, writes (18 January 2012):
you should end it because it seems that she is trying to get you jelous(i know i spelled it wrong)point is that when you guys break up she comes back to you so she has a reason to tell people that she has a boyfriend but then leaves you aside and blames you for not being with her most of the time. AND
she even took the only time for you guys to be together and spends it with her guy friends (who are MADLY IN LOVE with HER)!!!
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (31 August 2010):
 This sounds to me like you're her comfortable couch to come back to. It could be that she's 'sampling' what's out there... trying to find a replacement herself but keeps coming back to you when she finds you are better than what's available.
If she truly loves you... she needs to spend more time with you... either AT HOME... or NOT... that's something you two have to work out.
However, if she's unwilling to spend more time with you you need to think about whether you really want to be treated this way or not?!?!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 August 2010):
Friend, even after you broke with her three times and she promised to change, nothing has changed and you're still being taken for a ride. You have got to end it for good. She's so clearly used to getting her own way with everyone, and when she doesn't she turns on the tears so people still give her her own way. You're just being used by this girl. You pay for everything, and get nothing. End it permanently. She won't change.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 August 2010):
 You should end it for good, especially if you've already had the conversation with her and have tried to end things 3 times.
Also, she's having you pay for everything after 10 months? That's a bit extreme. If she's booking the restaurants, she should pay or go Dutch. If she expects you to pay, you should choose.
Also, she shouldn't hang out with a bunch of guys who are clearly pursuing her romanticly. She does not respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): dude im having almost the exact same problem with my girl :S the only thing which is different is that two of her male friends were her exs :S so imagine how i would feel when my girl hang out with someone that already kissed and touched her..shes also wealthy fron her dad , she doesnt expect me to pay for everything but i still do anyway..sometimes she does invit me thats nt the problem
but i dont know what to do when it comes to her male friends either
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