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*rokenheartedmusician
writes:Ok, So my girlfriend and I broke up in July. So a little over six months ago. We were together for over 2 years, and everything was great, till this new guy started hanging around. Somebody that talks with a lot of charm and flirts with every girl, or seems to whenever I met him. On Facebook, he has several hundred female friends and only a handful male friends. He invited her over for a fire in june or so, and I never met him so I said I was uncomfortable, but she replied that she could handle herself and not to worry, he's not a bad guy, hes just a friend. Ok so after a while of him inviting her to parties and stuff, I got sick of it. One night we were talking on the phone and she said she was tired, so we ended the conversation. The next morning, I talked to her and she said she was tired from talking to this guy because he needed someone to talk to. So we argued and long story short, she left be because "I couldn't trust her." When in reality, I did trust her, I just didn't trust him. Now they are dating, have been since september. So its been about 4-5 months. Last I talked to her in November it sounded like things were not going well for her, but she was too ignorant to see that and that she is unhappy, but I didn't tell her that. They haven't gone on an official first date, they only see each other at work, he never met her parents, her parents hated him because of some things that they had found out about this guy, and he keeps making plans with her, but somthing comes up always last minute. They finally went on their first "date" in december.I loved this girl with all my heart, I still do. She says she wants me to move on, but when one of her friends told her she saw me with another girl, she lookd hesitant. As if she was afraid of me moving on. Even though this girl was one of my closest friends, and has beeen for a while, even while we were dating. I just wanted to know what you guys thought. Does she still have feelings for me? I havn't talked to her since november because of a stupid argument we had. She posted somthing on her skype account which got me worried, because it had to do with a medical reason, so i contacted her about it and she said it was a joke and she got mad at me because I was worried about her. Hasn't contacted me since.Everything was going great. We never fought until we broke up. She tells me she wants me to move on, but her actions say she's not quite over me, or so from what I can tell. The relationship for the man she left me for appeared to be rocky at that time, but I don't know because I havnt talked to her. I know people will tell me to let her go, but I can't. I've tried for 6 months now. I love her so much, and I think she still cares, but I think she just has a crush on this guy. There are a whole lot more details, but I dont want to bore anybody. Thank you for your time.
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reader, brokenheartedmusician +, writes (21 January 2011):
brokenheartedmusician is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThen, lovablelaura86, do you know why she acted strange when her friend told her that I was with another girl. As if she didn't want me to be seeing other people. That part puzzles me. What I mean is, have you ever felt like that or acted like that in a situation like that. If so, why? if you don't mind me asking
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reader, brokenheartedmusician +, writes (21 January 2011):
brokenheartedmusician is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlet me clarify, in the first paragraph, we stopped talking to eachother at about 11:00 that night, and she talked to him till well after 1:00 a.m.
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reader, lovablelaura86 +, writes (21 January 2011):
well if this girl is anything like me then she does want you to move on, because she doesn't want you hurting anymore. i try to tell my ex that all the time.
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