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writes:Hi just want some advice on a relathiship with my now ex-girlfriend.I lived in Ireland and came to visit my gran while here i met a girl, she said she would like to get to know me so it would be better if i moved over here to England, i dd and when went out with each other for 6 months, then she finsihed with me over an argument, then we got back together and i finished with her because i thought she was not putting anything into the relationship.3 months later i regretted finshing with her because i liked her alot. Tried to get back with her but she said no. Anyway recently she moved to spain l emailed a letter to her hopeing all works out for her, told her i liked and cared about her alot, but since she didnt feel the same thought it best for us to move on now and start our own lives. she never mailed me back. 2 months ago she was at a get together i was at, i didnt want to talk to her as i didnt want to stare up any of my emothions for her, heard she had moved back to England.Well 2 weeks ago, she phoned me and said,oh i was going to delete your number thought you was back in Ireland, spoke for about 3 minutes then went. Just wondered what you thought? Why wont she leave me alone even though i said lets move on now? She said she would not go back out with me, but she keeps contacting me. I do still care about her but if nothing going to come of us i think it best to move on and leave each other alone.sean
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reader, LittleTwoLegs  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 She was just being polite to you. She's not interested in getting with you again, but it sounds to me like she moved on way before you, since romanticism is still on your mind and she seems to've not been thinking along those lines for a long time now. Friend potential? Sure, I don't think she has any hard feelings for you, otherwise she wouldn't have showed consideration in deleting your number, but she definantly does not want to be with you romantically.
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