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anonymous
writes:my BF and I were at his ex's house picking up his son and she wasn't home. I felt strange going in but they both asked me to as they didn't see it as a problem. while in her house, my ex proceeded to look through her mail and stuff she had laying around. She is remarried and I was a little shocked. he seemed to feel as though he had the right but I didn't see it that way.
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reader, Blue Rat  +, writes (27 March 2007):
He has absolutely no right to look through her stuff. It's an outrageous invasion of her privacy (and as she is re-married, very probably an invasion of her husband's privacy too!). He's there to pick up his son only and as such is a guest in her house and nothing more.
His behaviour is disgraceful and you should tell him so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): You are right about the fact that he shouldn't look through her stuff and e-mails. He wouldn't like it if it was the other way would he? Tell him that and hopefully he'll stop rummaging through his ex's personal stuff.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I think you're right. He doesn't have a right to go through her things. However, I'm not sure you have the right to tell him not to. It's her things he's going through and therefore her responsibility to tell him he's not to do that. However if he's going through your things you can tell him where to go.
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