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writes: Hi,I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. I'm a male guy who has a female friend who is going out with my mate, however tonight I was talking to her online and she asked me to have a threesome with her (she is bisexual) so I said to her I prefer one on one sex. (I don't like threesomes really) so I said to her, why haven't you asked my mate (her bf) instead for a threesome? So she said, because you would be better to sleep with. So we have both decided to that we are going to sleep together but just one on one instead of a threesome. But I feel quilty for saying yes especially when she is going out with my mate. Thanks,Confusedddddddd.com
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reader, Tipster  +, writes (11 July 2007):
wow, sounds rough. We've got a name for guys look you around my town, "Lucky Bastards"Sounds like the girl is into you and not your mate. If you don't want to step on his toes than ask him before you proceed, he might not even care.Good luck and have fun!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (9 June 2005):
 You would most definately lose your friend over this. And she obviously hasnt any regard for your friend or she wouldnt even have asked you for a threesome. At the end of the day it is just sex, and that seems thats all she is after, is having sex with her really worth risking your friendship with your mate for ? Probably not, by the sounds of it, if she doenst have sex with you shes going to go find someone else... let her do it, at least your concious will be clear when this happens and you will still have your friend.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (9 June 2005):
 You are right for feeling guilty. You are about to betray a friend for one night of meaningless sex. What if you met a girl who you really wanted to take out and you found out that your friend already slept with her? Yeah, it doesn't sound that innocent anymore does it? Friends last longer than a one night stand. I think you already know what you should do. Because if you didn't you wouldn't be feeling guilty. Be a good friend, and do like a good friend.
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reader, lucy +, writes (8 June 2005):
No way I think you should do it. You would totally be betraying your mate for one evening of sex with a girl you don't even seem crazy about! Weigh it up and I think you will find that it's not worth it. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2005): What's to be confused about, for heaven's sake? You must know you shouldn't be sleeping with your friend's girlfriend.What kind of friend are you that you would sleep with her anyway? Put yourself in his position, how would you feel if he was to sleep with yours? You are making the wrong choice here, I'm suprised you cant see that. I feel very sorry for this guy who probably trusts both of you and you are both willing to throw it in his face.He clearly has made the wrong choice of friend and girlfriend.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (8 June 2005):
 I think you'll live to regret this one if you go through with it. In the end, what you'll have done is risked a friendship for a single night with a girl you don't even indicate that you're particularly attracted to.Sounds like a poor choice.
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reader, rabbit +, writes (8 June 2005):
I said this before, but it deserves another mention.Partners come and go, but a mate is forever.Don't lose a mate over a girl.Then again, it would depend entirely on your level of friendship.Most definately, it would be best if she broke off any previous relationships before starting a new one.
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