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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:She Stares at me while I'm around. Like she will see me and look at me for a while. She won't take her eyes off me until she has to move or I walk away then the looks quit She calls me Hun whenever I talk to her. Like to wish her happy holiday or birthday even for small things.. She knows my first and last nameAre these signs she likes me? I'm curiousWhat does the staring mean.. Cuz she doesn't do that with other guys Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2012): If she is from the south, an older woman, or works a position like a secretary/assistant, or teacher there is a possibility she calls lots of people 'hun' and knows their first and last names.Next, if you stare at her a lot, or generally act weird, creepy, or socially inept around her, she could be watching you because you make her uncomfortable or because she is confused by your actions. What is her facial expression when she is watching you. Is it negative (worried or pensive), neutral (blank or fake smile), or positive (genuine smile, interested, or thoughtful). If you can work out whether she feels positive towards you, you will know whether she likes you.If you are socially immature, have social anxiety, asperger's, add/adhd, or any other condition that causes problems with social interractions, please find a local therapist who can help you learn social skills and prepare you for life-long social interactions.
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reader, Abella +, writes (1 July 2012):
 You say she does not stare at other guys. So something about you intrigues her. Maybe she can't take her eyes off you, because she is feeling and emerging attraction and she is looking for a sign from you that you feel the same.
if you also like her then make a move and invite her out for a coffee, or if around a meal time, then invite her to join you when you visit the place you both choose. (So suggest a choice: Pizza or Subway, for example)
Make sure no one else but the two of you, Just the two of you attend this. Then get to know her better.
Ask her 'Open' questions, such as "what made you choose that subject..." and "What do you most enjoy about...."
Do not ask any 'Closed' questions that can only have a 'yes' or a 'no' answer as it closes down the conversation.
And if then you still like her even more then invite her there and then on a date. Keep it simple and nothing lavish.
If there is an attraction between the two of you then you will see it start to emerge the more you see her.
Best Wishes with this
Regards
Abella
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