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writes:i really like this girl, and she really likes me. but she is going out with this guy and he treats her like crap. and then she gets p.o. and the next day she forgets about it. He also ditches her for weed. any advice? anything i can do? i want to win her over. how can I?[Added from the same user] we went out and i knew she was with someone else when we went out. but she liked everything that we did together when we were going out. but then we split up cause she felt bad about cheating on her bf, but she likes me more than him. but how do i win her whole heart, so she will be with me, instead of her loser bf?[Added from the same user]i really like her but she has a bf. and she does not deserve him at all. she really likes me so should i give her flirty/love messages to make her change her mind about her bf and to go after me? or should i do something else? what should i do? advice?[Moderator's note: Please avoid to submit your question in more than one copy or version. Only one will be approved so please concentrate your narration and the details in a single message in the future, this will benefit you more for certain by providing the readers with a more unitary vision of the facts, with all details included in the same message. Thank you.]
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 November 2008):
Consolidate her mind by cutting contact.She has the best of both worlds at the moment.So tell her that you want her and you would treat her like a princess and everything else about why you would be a great boyfriend... and then tell her you will leave her alone to make her mind up. Tell her to get in touch if she decides she wants to give it a go and has dumped her boyfriend.Then cut contact.If she gets in touch then ask her if she is single yet. If she says no then don't talk to her.Not having you as a nice loving friend on the side might make her think about what a creep she is sticking with at the moment.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Honey Sweet +, writes (4 November 2008):
 this is very painful. i know. ive had this in the past x she must like you if she cheated on him for you. because, if she forgets that her boyfriend treats her like crap, she must really love him. you have to tell her how u feel. no matter what. because it just ruins you when u bottle it up. you have to say if you got with her, ud never treat her like that.or say "do you really want stay with a guy like that? because you deserve so much better." its very hard to explain. send her chocolates, roses. not infrint of the boyfriend from hell of course. make her feel special so that it shows her that shes making a mistake staying with him. just keep trying. i really hope this helps a little. honey x x x x
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