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writes: I have for some time been attracted to my nextdoor neighbour, she is 20 years older than me but is divorced how can i approach her without offending her i am not looking for a relationship i just want to tell her that i have been attracted to her for 15 years
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reader, zosey +, writes (22 August 2006):
 hey, i think if u want to tell her then while ur talking to her just say shes attractive and u have thought so for some time other wise if u tell her tht u have thought that for 15 years she might think ur abit of a werido just give her a compliment women love them especially if there generally real and not a mess about. take care. hope this helped. zoe
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): I think she will be offended is you tell her you just see her as someone to get it on with.
If you don't want a "serious" or "long term" relationship then leave her the hell alone.
If you just wish to pay her a compliment...then do so.
If it is because you are hoping your fantasies of being with an older, wiser woman will come to fruitation...leave it be.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (21 August 2006):
 Ok, I am a bit confused, if you dont want to date her but you just want to let her know that you "fancy" her why dont you just come out and tell her as you have nothingtolose seeing that you dont want to be an item? I am sure that she may be very flattered if you told her how you felt but then again, she may be a bit confused as to why you have said nothing for 15 years but you dont want a relationship either. Good luck. xXx
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