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She has a boyfriend, are we friends with benefits?

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Question - (8 May 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2012)
A male Sierra Leone age 30-35, *amara writes:

I met this girl at a resort on february.She was definitely made from heaven.I asked her out but she was not interested and told me to be her friend instead.Since then,we've been having fun,going out for dinner and she visit me almost everyday.She told me she has someone that she's been dating for five years and really luv.unfortunately,she gets jealous if a girl ring me or text me.She start getting jealous of every girl and i felt insecure.She made it seem that she has the right to question me but i can't do the same to her.One faithful day,one thing led to the other and we kissed and had intense foreplay.since then,we've been doing this almost everyday.she spends time with me more than her boyfriend and text me every 3o minutes or so. She often cals me to amend any problem in their relationship but steal jealouses me and do foreplay with me.I thought we were in a relationship but she said we are just friends.please help me cuz she is complicating me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012):

"She has a boyfriend, are we friends with benefits?"

No, she's a tramp cheating on her boyfriend and you're the chump with whom she's cheating on him.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (9 May 2012):

janniepeg agony auntIf she is made from heaven I don't want to go there. It is really simple, stop cheating with her. You amend her problem by stopping yourself being the problem. Is this what friends do? Help each other cheat? Her problem is that she has no empathy. She can cheat all she wants but she wants men all to herself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012):

You are not in a relationship and yur not friends with benefits, you are her affair. She is in a relationship, therefore she is cheating on her boyfriend, and you are cheating with her because you know she has a boyfriend. She is using you, and she is not an respectable woman. I am sorry but you would be better to end this and move on. She has no right to be jealous over you and any other woman, because she is not in a relationship with you and she is a cheater. I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but it is my honest truth.

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A female reader, coders877 United States +, writes (9 May 2012):

coders877 agony auntI would walk away....

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