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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so heres my situation, me and this girl (ill call her j) got pretty close on this trip together. never did anything in terms of hooking up but we had some great talks so after we started txting a little and by that time id fallen for her and i started expressing my interest until she tells me she doesnt want a relationship right now. Then later i found out from a mutual friend that she may have regretted her decision. We slowly started chatting again and got close but then she lost interest again. it drove me nuts. now weve been talking a lot as friends but shes always flirty which kind of pisses me off because i know it doesnt mean anything. then we were chatting and she asked me about my social status with other girls in my grade(we're a year apart) and the asked me if im asking someone to homecoming i said probably with someone as a friend and she told me she was getting asked and what not. I was cool and like im happy for u. but now im wondering should i just get away from all this because its not worth my time or is she asking those things for a reason? i have no clue i still have some feelings for her i just dont like to waist my time. i just need answers, its kindof annoying. Thanks in advance
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 September 2011):
 She doesn't want you. If her behaviour annoys you then tell her, or stop talking to her so much. You're just fishing for more when you speak to her, hoping she'll come around, but how many times are you going to allow yourself to get hurt by her? She already told you she doesn't want you, so stop hanging around waiting for more rejection.
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