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writes:Almost three weeks ago I got back together with my ex, spent the day with her, had a fairly good time. She's called me once since then to tell me she's going over to a friends' house, then hangs up like I'm just someone else. She swears up and down she loves me, and is making all kinds of excuses to avoid contact with me. I'm wondering if anyone has some advice or past experience with this kind of problem.My only guess is that she's afraid or nervous...
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (11 September 2011):
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Well if she is with another guy now then that explains why she is distant and avoiding you. So, you must now pull away. One way of doing this would be to cut all contact and see if she gets in touch. Don't suffer someone ignoring you or having no time for you. If that's the case then fine. Walk away. At the moment, she is keeping you hanging in there. Walk away.
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reader, Chrisfeelsnothing +, writes (10 September 2011):
Chrisfeelsnothing is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe wanted to get back together, and it's been quite a while. She claimed that it wasn't "the same" as before and started crying, telling me how she turned down so many people waiting for me and such, how I'm special to her. Now it's been about 3 weeks since that and apparently she is with another guy now. I have no idea what's going on, more to the point, what do you think I should do about this?
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (10 September 2011):
It's difficult to say. Who wanted to get back together? If she did, then it is strange she is distant. You will have to meet and talk to her and find out if she really does want to give it another go. It doesn't seem like it at the moment though.
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reader, ryukage +, writes (10 September 2011):
 I think her heart isn't in the right place, So still might want a relationship but she just might want everything else, like school/work,family,friends to be at near balance or anything or anyone that in the way to be out the way for that happened and she needs time to think it through upon what she wants for her future as far as everything.
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