A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello,So I went on my second date with a guy I previously dated a couple years back. We had an great connection before, and great chemistry. We kept in contact over the years and when we dated before I wanted "more" and he didn't. We kept in contact here and there and he always asked me out.I handled things badly before I admit it. I just went my own way because I was so hurt he didn't want for "us" to become more after being together for a year I wasn't asking for much. I decided to "try again" because I never stopped caring about him BUT I was apprehensive of getting hurt again so I delayed our dates up until recently. Our first date was good we chatted a lot. I listened to him and feelings began resurfacing. We ended it with a peck, and a big hug. He hugged me tight like he had missed me.After our first date there was some communication here and there he said its because he is very busy @ the moment. Even when we previously dated he was very busy but was in contact more. The second date was good, we laughed a lot together and went for a walk down by the river, and talked(no holding hands or anything) then he walked me to my car he seemed a bit nervous we shared a peck, and some tongue and a little hug. The kiss was "ok" as he seemed nervous and so was I a bit. When we dated before we couldn't keep our hands off eachother and this time around we seem nervous around one another. Do u think he is actually nervous or maybe not interested anymore? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeybun  +, writes (2 June 2012):
 i think he is interested but he is going very carefully
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (2 June 2012):
 The second time it is different because he is aware of your needs and doesn't want to give you false hopes. Of course the attraction is still there but he can't be carefree anymore. It all goes around in a circle and one day you'll come back with the question "where does he stand." I think comprehensive is a better word than nervous.
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