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writes:My first girlfriend recently split up with me. She says that she hasn't gotten over her ex. We seemed to be doing ok since we were only seeing each other for a month. Is she lying and if not should i call her and ask to be friends?
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reader, Starrla +, writes (19 March 2006):
 Well does she have a BF right now?right after she broke up with you.Because there a possible chance she's telling the truth because if she was in love with her ex then she would break up with you for that.But for right now You should call her and ask to be friends for right now and whenever ask her back out again.But if she did get a BF right after you then yeah she did lie too ya.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (15 March 2006):
 She is sensible in realising she is on the rebound with you and as such is not giving you a fair relationship.
Be her friend and you never know what will come of this in future if it is meant to be.
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reader, missbunbury +, writes (15 March 2006):
 There's no way for me to know whether she's lying - you know her, so you have to make the judgement yourself. It's always worth trying to stay friends, especially when you're young and the relationship didn't last long, but you should onnly bother if she is someone who you genuinely want to be friends with - don't go into it hoping that you'll get her back, and bear in mind that friends talk about their love lives, so if this would bother you it may be best to leave it for now. My advice if you do want to stay friends is to give her a call and tell her that although you're sad things are no longer romantic between you, you think she's a really great person and you'd like to keep in touch.
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