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Name: Starrla

Gender: Female

Eye color: Green

Height: 5'6

Hair color/Length: Brown/Long

Staus: Has a BoyFriend

Hobbies: Hanging with Friends/ alking to people

State I live in: Georgia

E-Mail: StarrlaNap4@aol.com

She only wanted a casual relationship, but I wasn't happy with that. Now I regret storming off...

Q.   I was seeing a girl from work for three months; nothing serious. Texting, meeting up a few times. It was her that initiated everything at first. She told me about a previous boyfriend that she was in love with two years ago cheated on her and brok...

A.   20 March 2006: Just text her or call her and tell her that the casual thing will be okay with you,and be there for her whenever she needs you,and adventually whenever she gets over her ex boyfriend she'll figure out that she wants you back....... (read in full...)

Don't want to take out my old anger on my new boyfriend...

Q.   How can you not take out your anger at your abusive ex on your current bf?...

A.   19 March 2006: Just tell him what you've been feeling and how much anger you have about your ex and he'll probley understand and tell him that your sorry if you ever take it out on him....... (read in full...)

We never fight. Is that normal?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are in love. We've been dating for over a year, but we never fight. Is that normal?...

A.   19 March 2006: Yeah,it's normal it just means that.Ya'll trust each other 100 percent,and a better reason to stay together for along time.... (read in full...)

This is starting to scare me... Is my boyfriend too obsessed with me?

Q.   I'm scared my boyfriend might be obsessed with me. He is always wanting to talk to me and gets very jealous. I like him a lot but he's starting to scare me. I can't dump him because he's one of my best friends and I would hate to not speak to him. ...

A.   19 March 2006: If he gets Jealous and wants to talk to you all the time it only means that he likes you alot and he don't want no one to take you away from him.It isn't that hard to figure out.... (read in full...)

So shy that I can barely speak! Is there a way to get over it?

Q.   I am 15 and I get really shy around guys I like. I mean so shy I can barely speak to them because I am so nervous. What can I do to get over this? Guys think I am boring or something because I can't carry on a conversation. Eventually if people ...

A.   19 March 2006: Just try imageing their like all your other friends.... (read in full...)

She couldn't get over her ex, so she broke up with me

Q.   My first girlfriend recently split up with me. She says that she hasn't gotten over her ex. We seemed to be doing ok since we were only seeing each other for a month. Is she lying and if not should i call her and ask to be friends?...

A.   19 March 2006: Well does she have a BF right now?right after she broke up with you.Because there a possible chance she's telling the truth because if she was in love with her ex then she would break up with you for that.But for right now You should call her and ... (read in full...)

I can't stay away from my ex. What can I do?

Q.   Hi, I could really do with some advice concerning my now ex girlfriend. To cut a long story short, we broke up about a week ago after a very on off relationship (more off from her point of view). One minute she would confess her undying love for...

A.   19 March 2006: It's comepletly normal to still have feeling for her and all.But seriously You need to get out of the house and go meet other girls bec. apparently she doesn't want too see you anymore,and if this situation gets any worse I think you should seek ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is going back to his wife, is he telling me the truth?

Q.   I have been having an affair with a man for 15 months, he has been living with me. Now he has decided to go home for his daughter. He says he's told the wife about the affair and that he didnt love her, and she has accepted it. My question...

A.   19 March 2006: I think he's not telling you the truth,not to me a rude or nothing But I think he's just trying to tell you he wants back with his family.... (read in full...)

With my first boyfriend, and I want to be a better kisser!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend now for over a month and I really really like him. The problem is, I'm not confident at all! As I've had no experience with kissing before, I don't know what to do. I know this sounds really stupid, but I'm being 100% ...

A.   19 March 2006: On most of the magazine I read they say practice on the back of your hand.I don't know if it helps,but you could try it.And if that guy really cares about you it shouldn't matter about how you kiss.... (read in full...)

If my friend finds out I have a crush on her boyfriend, it's going to be a disaster...

Q.   I am in a lot of trouble. I have this crush on my best friend's boyfriend and I don't want her to find out, otherwise our friendship will be over. I think he is dead cute and a lovely personality. Please someone help me! What shall I do?...

A.   19 March 2006: Actually I was in the same situation as you are.One of my friends had a BF and he was my ex but I told him how I felt and it turned out that he felt the same way about me,and he dumped my friend for me and were currtently dateing we've been dateing ... (read in full...)

Broke up with my married lover, but it hurts that we can't be together!

Q.   I'm a 25 year old female and have been single for a long time. The longest relationship I had was for 3 months. I've got a best mate and have known him for 3 years. Over the past year we have been having an affair. He is married. We have both rec...

A.   19 March 2006: I know It's hard,but I think you should get over him Bec. think about it he's married,and You'll probley be better off.... (read in full...)

Is this age-gap relationship normal? Or freaky?

Q.   Is this a normal situation to be in for a 19 year old? I'm 19 years old and I am seeing an older guy who is 41... I know this can't go anywhere because of the age gap being so large(right?) but I dont know what to do I feel trapped. It depr...

A.   19 March 2006: You really shouldn't worry about the age differnce,I know a bunch of couples who's had that age differnce and they've been happy together.So if you really care about him and he cares about you,and your both happy.Then trust me the age shouldn't ... (read in full...)

I can't get through to him emotionally, since he's decided that our relationship can't last...

Q.   Me again! I've posted twice about this guy I'm seeing who will be moving away soon and isn't sure whether we'd work out or not...Ok, so I've come to realise he (S) has an issue with commitment, which is ironic as HE was always the one saying how ...

A.   19 March 2006: Just tell him How much you love him,and you would never do anything to hurt,ecpecially you wouldn't never cheat on him.... (read in full...)

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