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writes:Background infoim 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it didnt work. i am extreeemley embarrised about this and havent confronted my bf about it yet. What should i do? about everything, how should i confront him? what should i say? and if we do try again what can i do to make it fit before and while we are trying. it hurt alot just getting nowhere and so im sure its going to hurt wen it does happen, what can i do to ease the pain?thankyou so much xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): It wouldnt fit? Thats quite strange.I think you should try getting him to give you a massage.Not sensual at first but on your back and neck to relax you then going to the deeper more intimate areas as your inner thighs.this should lube you up a bit more naturally.he could also put the lube onto you and rub it in.im sure you will enjoy it and get you a bit more relaxed and sexually active.im afraid as it is your first time and you say it hurts it is going to hurt when it goes in however the lube and your natural juices should easen you up a lot more.im sorry if it sounds a little gross :P
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