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writes:i need some help am confused, i dunno if i love my cousion, we have not had sex yet but we've come close quite a few times,we've kissed and pleasured each other, this has been happening for a number of years this started when i was about 11 and she was about 13, we was left in the bedroom and it went from there,we didnt talk when we was doin it, she said she loved me wen she was drunk and wanted to be with me i feel the same way but when shes sober she doesnt say anything about it, its confusin me and am to scared to say anything! isit right for us to have a sexual relationship or any kind of relationship? i think i do love her and would be with her but i dont think my family would be happy about it what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): I really think you should have a regular, light conversation with her[[when she is sober]] and then naturally bring up the times when she was DRUNK and declared her love for you. Make sure you are very precise and assure her whichever answer she has its between you and her and no one else;ask her if she really meant it.
Then you go on from there. Yes it would most likely cause some family problems;talk. But you have to know its not them. Its you, her, and your hearts. :) The rest you will have to ignore. Hope this helps with the confusion.
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reader, Markingbad +, writes (25 October 2009):
 It depends on if your cousin wants to really. Then you deal with the rest of your familly.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 October 2009):
Though it's not illegal, it could make family a bt of a problem, and there could be medical history that might affect any children you might possibly have later in life. You do need to follow your heart, but my personal opinion would be to move on from her.
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