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writes:I have a few sex related questions. I am 18 and recently started having sex with my boyfriend. Before him I was a virgin. I had read plenty and knew what I was doing but I realize everyone is different but I cant tell if you boy friend is just different or if I am doing something wrong. For one, he says he cant cum from blow jobs, no matter how hard I try. He claims the tip of his penis just isn't sensitive. I cant tell if that true or if he is just making it up so I dont feel bad. Another problem I have is that no matter how good it feels, I cant orgasm unless I am touching myslf or using a vibrator at the same time we are having sex. Even when its oral, it feels great but I don't climax. Lastly I feel bad that all we ever do is the basic missionary position but any time we try something different i feel like I am not doing it right or like I am grossing him out. Like when we tried doggy style, I queefed. A lot. It was so embarrassing I flipped back over and somehow still turned him on enough to finish. Please help, I am new to sex and though I thought I knew all about it I am all confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2015): Usually no sound ever comes of f mine, but there was a guy once with whom it happened. It's was so strange for me, because it's not like I just started, I was in my early 30s and it happened. Don't worry guys don't get so easily turned off. They want plenty of other gross stuff during sex like anal when anything can happened and they don't even get grossed out by that. As far as blow job : do you actually want him to orgazm from that. See, this would gross me out, if he finished in my mouth. If he doesn't orgazm from that then good for you. And don't be so panicky about not pleasing him enough. He gets his pleasure much more than you, this is just how it works with guys. They ALWAYS orgazm, one way or another, it's with us girls is different. Most women don't orgazm from intercourse, it's a well known fact. You don't orgazm from oral because you can't totally relax. Or may be he is not very knowledgable on how to do it. That's why you a self help routine .Most women don't orgazm from intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2015): Sweetheart, if your boyfriend was turned off by your queef, there's a problem. A queef isn't an actual vagina fart, (they can't fart) it's just where air is forced into your vagina and it comes back out. Just the other day me and my boyfriend were having sex and I queefed, we both laughed about it and kept right on going. He wasn't turned off at all. And it wasn't awkward to us. I guess that's just because we're really close. I suggest trying to get closer to your boyfriend, because you shouldn't feel the way you do about queefing. Technically it's his fault you did it. Lol. Try riding him, I've never queefed while doing that so hopefully you won't. And the blowjob thing, perfectly normal. Some guys will cum after 2 seconds of reciving a blowjob, others simply can't. While you're giving him a blowjob use your hand too, and don't just suck, also lick in different places. (like his balls) You're going to get better sweetheart. Youll learn tricks along the way.
Good luck!
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