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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy who I've liked for three years now. It's kind of pathetic I've admired him for this long and haven't had the guts to ever do anything until now, but let's say I've let him know I'm interested but not enough for him to know I REALLY like him and want to date him.After all I've experienced with guys through past few years I've now come to realize I have no idea how to attract or get a guy interested without sex. Now I don't go flaunting it or straight asking for it.I'm a girl, my intention is to date a guy not just use him. But for some reason I have this "use" sign on my head that every guy I'm interested in sees that and goes for that. I don't want this to happen with the man of my dreams so how do I get him interested without expecting just sex or instigating it? I'm not one to play games but those ive talked to including guy friends say I have to play just a little cat and mouse. How the he'll do I do that? Keep him interested and wanting more? Do I text him first to let him no he's on my mind? I've always been afraid because I don't want to be that creepy girl. I've had my fair share of creepy guys that don't get the hint..Any suggestions would help. I really like him and I want this to happen I just don't no how.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (28 December 2012):
Guys, esp at your age, look at you for sex .Unless you right quick show them they should be looking at you for something else. Guys figure that out pretty quick when the girl shows it to them.
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