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I am a young lady living in NYC. Its crazy here but beautiful.

Issues with being with my best friend's ex.

Q.   For the last few months, me and this girl have started getting really close and we've just come out and said that we like eachother and we've started getting yet even more closer. I'm so willing to take the next step but the only problem is.. She...

A.   29 October 2008: sweety put yourself first, if he did not move on then he needs to get smacked in the head.. but nmove on and do what is in ur interest... (read in full...)

I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!

Q.   Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ...

A.   29 October 2008: my update well i got back with him and we love each other more then over ...shit happens but i am strong to survive it... (read in full...)

I fell in love with a man.. but he's really a woman... and now I'm so confused. Please help me.

Q.   Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just ...

A.   14 October 2008: Listen.. um the most i can do is give you my opinion. But if he/she really cared for you he/she would have been honest from the start. But I can tell you all you have to do is be strong and find a way to leave what you cannot uderstand. Many times ... (read in full...)

Her dad said I was being possesive of her! I don't know what to do

Q.   Mmhhhm..technology is a wonderful thing but sometimes it gets annoying. Such as, my girlfriend and I were riding in the car talking(her dad :( was driving us) her friends txt her a lot and that's fine so do mine. But when we are talking or not and ...

A.   14 October 2008: That is no where near possesive. You were just trying to express your opinion on texting. I mean maybe because of the way you said it he might have thought that . So that is why when we are around differnt people always find a way to connect to ... (read in full...)

How can I get my strict Greek parents to accept my boyfriend.

Q.   Hey everyone. please help me with this problem i have. i am an 18 year old girl who comes from a very strict Greek background. i recently met an amazing guy, but he is not Greek, so my parents do not accept him. i see him every weekend - but behi...

A.   13 October 2008: Sweeety I have a boyfriend to who my family is not the same. I mean my boyfriend is black and im from eastern europe. There are no black people over there. Its like you seem to be with a normal man where the outside looks should be the least ... (read in full...)

Relationship fights while drinking: What is normal?

Q.   ;ust wondering when you are in a relationship and fighting, what is normal and what is not? Especially if drinking? ...

A.   13 October 2008: I had a fight last night with my boyfriend because i got drunk . I regret it the day after but i cant change it it got physical and im in pain both mentally and physically. I wish I can change it but it allready happened so i have to move on from ... (read in full...)

I don't think I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. But I don't want to break up with him because I want to love him again!

Q.   I don't think I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. I frequently feel very miserable about no logical reason. I've sought professional help for it before, though no-one really takes this problem seriously, I don't think. Anyway, I was feeling do...

A.   13 October 2008: I suggest you try something different. Take a chance with him and just go and explore theworld . Go to places you never have. If you think thats weird then heey just go all out and maybe u will see that when life is not devoted to material things ... (read in full...)

Did he really mean it? Or it was just said in the heat of the moment?

Q.   Hello, I was having sex with my 8 month's boyfriend yesterday, and I told him that I loved him while we were having sex. I do feel it, and I am very emotional, and we have shared that we have strong feelings for each other, so when I told him that...

A.   13 October 2008: I guess ask him when youre not having sex if he really loves you. I think at times the same about my boyfriend , but then i look beyond the sex and what we have and its deep and passionate so im sure he does, but know that love does not come fast ... (read in full...)

Five years ago I got drunk, and naked, friends took pictures, and made me famous around town, I am humilated, should I get over it?

Q.   I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really ...

A.   13 October 2008: the only reason why ur friends even bring it up i think is because they see that you put a feeling whenever they mention it . The best thing to do in my opinion is just admit to it and maybe happily say hell yeah i did it !! And what??? We as people ... (read in full...)

Why do guys only like skinny, slutty girls and why don't they like overweight girls, who are great people on the inside? Any insights?

Q.   i want to know why guys are so mean and picky that they only like skinny girls that are slutty and why they don't like overweight girls. It really hurts my feelings that they judge me based on the way that i look and not whats on the inside, I ...

A.   13 October 2008: Listen men fall for everything. I experienced when i got a little bit bigger actually i got more attention .. i had it in the right places though. and now that i am skinnier i actually dont get that attention. So dont think that men only like skinny ... (read in full...)

22 years old and sleeping with my boss... I'm falling for him! How do I tell him?

Q.   im a 22 single woman and im sleeping with my 24 years old single boss, im starting to fall in love with him but im not sure is felling the same way, how to ask him without scaring him?...

A.   13 October 2008: ummm baby been there done that .. let me tell you if he can sleep with you, then he can sleep with anyone from that job. Of course we all want the fairy tale story , but from experience i think its best that u two should seperate.Have a long ... (read in full...)

Age difference - I need your advice please!

Q.   I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...

A.   13 October 2008: Hey ..I been there before i was young and i always loved older men now that i am 22 i have learned to love men my age. What i am trying to say is dont hurry into things in life. There is so much more to life that you have not seen. You guys can ... (read in full...)

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