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writes:hmm ok like over a year ago i had a relapse with my ex bf, he came over to my house nobody was home... we didnt have sex he just fingered me a little.. and we made out... my uncle came home he didnt catch us in the act but i knew he was disappointed by me... he told my mom and my family had some type of intervention for me cause i only did that becuz i was lonely and depressed.. me and the guy dont talk any more, havent since i cut him out my life cause he basically told a mutual friend we had sex but we didnt so i found out and cut him out my life... i dont know if that has caused me trust issues but i havent dated since.. im completely over him! so i know thats not why i havent moved on...I told one person i trust and this was my hs guidance counselor even tho i graduated from hs, we've remained in good contact and i trust her, she said i did the right thing by cutting him off... my question is how does one regain confidence self respect after that ? and realize that hopefully not all men are like that??
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (31 October 2009):
 Meet and be with decent people don't go to places where your likely to meet guys just looking for a one night stand, avoid those places like the plague!
Dress decently and always have a good conversation piece, believe it or not most men do like women to be able to talk about anything, they are not all out looking to get laid.
You will regain confidence and self respect again and you do that by being with the right people who will bring that out in you.
I have no doubts you will go on to overcome this look what you have achieved already!
Gina
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reader, QuirkLady + ♥, writes (31 October 2009):
 Get dressed up, looking nice and sharp and pretty, and go out on the town. Meet some new people - nothing serious, just go out and have a good time. Once you get back in the swing of dating and start meeting some men who are about something, you'll see there's more out there than your ex-bf.
Good luck.
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