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writes:It’s a arrange marriage, I love her but she don’t. She speaks to me but don’t have feelings, it’s been 3 months we speaking on phone. How to invoke feelings in her heart?1. I never had girlfriend 2. Don’t know how to show my true love to her3. She is far away from me and I can meet her once in 2 months Reply to this Question
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reader, Vish +, writes (6 July 2008):
Vish is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Emilysanswers,
What you told is on right.
But I did following
1. Sending her sms on daily basis
2. Telling her That I can see even if her photo is not in front of me
3. when ever i meet her i give flowers , chocklets and gifts.
4. i explaining her beauty
BUt still there are something which i not done (mentionned in your reply). Please keep writing good ideas :).
Thanks Again for life saving pills
Vish
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 July 2008):
Write her letters, send her emails, post her little gifts.
You need to just work on getting to know her. Getting to know her likes and dislikes, what is her favourite flower? What is her favourite perfume? Once you know then make sure you have a bunch sent to her. Ask her about her views on life. Does she want to work after you are married, or have kids straight away? Does she want to do all the housework or will she expect you to help out?
Tell her if you think she's beautiful and tell her little things that you have noticed. EG. Does she have very soft hair? Or light brown eyes? or a nice smile? Tell her!
Make her see that you are going to care about her and treat her well.
Good Luck!! xx
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