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A female age 51-59, *usiedj writes:

My fiancee and I have known each other for 30 years but had lost contact for a few years..we were always dating someone else..we finally caught up with each other a year and a half ago and he told me he often thought of me in a loving way and we started dating. we are now living together and I adore him. he told me he had female friends that he had never and would never sleep with and would not stay in touch as much with them if it bothered me but I have male friends so no, I didn't mind. He works out of town for weeks at a time so we spend alot of time apart. He just came back after 6 weeks and that night his text message went off and we were expecting a message from his son to come and visit so I checked it and he had accidentally left a text message open a girl had sent to him that was very explicit in it's wording and had 2 pictures with it both no face but naked shots.. I panicked and looked at his reply and he'd said show me how you make yourself.... and I'll even help. She is his friends girlfriend and lives 800 kms away but that's his hometown and goes there often. I don't want him to know I snooped at his response but am devastated..what should I do?

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