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*ilveknifex
writes:The girl I love is confusing me (long 10 points)?So bascially we went out for 2 months and it wasn't working mainly because she wasn't over her ex. We decided we needed to break it off but she didn't want to stop talking to me. She says she likes me, just right now she's not ready to go for something serious with anyone, I respect that. She's told me that I mean so much to her and she does appreciate me even though sometimes she doesn't show it and that having me right now means the world to her.A couple nights ago she talked to her ex and he made her cry, she hasn't done this in a long time, it seems like she said she's ready to finally get over him. A night after (I didn't know what happened on the phone the night before till like 3 days after) she came with me to my art awards thing. Afterwords we went to eat and in the cart we were talking and she goes what would you do if I kissed you right now, I said that's up to you so she laughed cus I made a funny face and then 3 minutes later she kissed me out of nowhere, so it seems she does actually still like me but the day after she said she gets a little aggravated that it seems like she's attached to me, but she's called off valentines day for us to go to chicago and I'm getting her a present.I'm thinking I just need to wait and give her some time, I'm in love with her she knows this and I know she likes me, we talk every day on the phone and we never argue, but she still has other guy friends (you guys know what guys try to do) but I trust her though, but what can I do? I really want this to work out and right now she's having a hard time since she decided to try to get over her ex of 3 years even though the past 7 months they haven't been going out...
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (6 February 2009):
 juss give her a little time to getr everything settle...give her time to work everything out of her system, you wont loose her it seems that she really is attached to you..and you kinda have the upper hand more than other guys... ("she goes what would you do if I kissed you right now, I said that's up to you so she laughed cus I made a funny face and then 3 minutes later she kissed me out of nowhere" "we talk every day on the phone and we never argue,") so you have a big chance, and have a huge effect on herrr so just be a little patient gudd luck, keep us posted peace
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