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G/f can't orgasm

Q.   hi, my girlfriend has been having sex since she was 16 or 17. now she is 22. i started dating her when she was 20. she doesn't seem to be able to orgasm, even though i have tried alot of things. she apparently enjoys it alot but just can't. ...

A.   8 January 2009: ok, thanks we are actually in south africa for holiday as i now live in her country, i arrived 3 weeks ago, and she is arriving next week, so i will let you know how it goes. hopefully she will try the lube and everything will go as planned.... (read in full...)

G/f can't orgasm

Q.   hi, my girlfriend has been having sex since she was 16 or 17. now she is 22. i started dating her when she was 20. she doesn't seem to be able to orgasm, even though i have tried alot of things. she apparently enjoys it alot but just can't. ...

A.   7 January 2009: thanks.. i will try the frostbite lube, it sounds promising, i tried the same sort of thing, but with brushing my teeth befre hand, cause i heard the feeling of the tooth paste can stimulate her the same way as you said, but i think it doesn't ... (read in full...)

G/f can't orgasm

Q.   hi, my girlfriend has been having sex since she was 16 or 17. now she is 22. i started dating her when she was 20. she doesn't seem to be able to orgasm, even though i have tried alot of things. she apparently enjoys it alot but just can't. ...

A.   7 January 2009: i think it is better with alcohol, but she doesn't really like to drink, she drinks when she is out with friends and me, or only with friends cause maybe she feels pressured, but never drinks when it is just us, because she says she doesn't feel ... (read in full...)

G/f can't orgasm

Q.   hi, my girlfriend has been having sex since she was 16 or 17. now she is 22. i started dating her when she was 20. she doesn't seem to be able to orgasm, even though i have tried alot of things. she apparently enjoys it alot but just can't. ...

A.   7 January 2009: thanks. i do everything, apparently i am good with my mouth too. i even take the time to only spend time on her. she says that if feels like she is going to, or that it comes to the point where she just wants to let go and orgasm, but she just loo... (read in full...)

How long does it usually take a guy to say I love you?

Q.   so my bf and i have been together for over a month and he is a little less than 3 years older than me. he is a juinor in highschool and i am a freshman. he has never said i love you, and we talk on the phone alot, and i get to see him about once ...

A.   7 January 2009: well, for me it was love at first site. i met her when i was on holiday. when i got back to my country, i packed up and went to hers. we have been together for 2 years now. i said i love you within a week. i don't think he will end up saying it... (read in full...)

Will the love come back? Will I want to be intimate with my hubby again?

Q.   I am 38 years old. I have been married to my husband for 4 years, we have two beautiful children, they are the loves of my life. However, I feel like I don't love my husband anymore and I am not physically or sexually attracted to him. Not sure ...

A.   7 January 2009: this is dodgy, i think your husband doesn't act like when you first met him, you guys don't do the same things you did when you are dating you just stay home etc.. go out to the movies, on dinner dates. go for walks at night (if it is safe) ... (read in full...)

How do I make a move on my boyfriend when I don't have the guts to?

Q.   I need some help. My bf and me have been together now for 2 weeks now.We love eachother very much. I would want to do a move but im so scared.I would love to have the guts! Do you guys have any tips to help me through this?...

A.   7 January 2009: you are 13 and dated the guy for 2 weeks, dodgy to want to have sex. apparently the best age to have sex for a woman is in her twenties, she will have much more powerfull orgasms and enjoy sex alot more. if you have sex when you are only 13, youc... (read in full...)

I like this girl that's my friend, but she doesn't seem to like me!

Q.   i like this girl in my last period(class) and thats the only time i get to see her in school. we sat pretty close to each other. we have just met this year for 4 month now but the first 2 month we talked alot with each other,we always made each ...

A.   7 January 2009: thats dodgy, dating a friend is difficult and if it doesn't work out, then it can get messy. the best thing it to meet someone with the intention of getting to know them in a romantic way. the only people i have dated is people i meet with the ... (read in full...)

I can't get over his past

Q.   OK this will be really long but I feel I have to give you the full story so you can try and help. Me and my boyfriend are both 24. We have been going out for almost 8 months. We told each other we loved each other after about 3 months. A month or so ...

A.   7 January 2009: if you are still a virgin, then i would definitely end it with him. there is nothing better than loosing your viginity to another virgin. even though it might not be that good, you will remember it. it will hurt a bit for you, so if you end up... (read in full...)

She just doesn't have time for me!

Q.   I have recently engaged in a new relationship with a wonderful girl. She is 17, a senior in High school and I am currently a sophomore in College. The age difference really doesn't affect us that much. My problem is that this girl never seems to ...

A.   7 January 2009: ok, from experience knowing other girls who dated guys that ere out of school, this is what i know. she most probably feels uncomfortable with you around people that she knows. although some people who know you that she knows will be diffent.... (read in full...)

Pregnant using a condom?

Q.   Me and this girl are wantin to have sex, but she dont want me to use a condom. She takes pills, can she still get pregant, if i dont use a condom...

A.   7 January 2009: also depends what kind of condoms you use, only use latex, the other condoms like snakeskin that don't stop std's i wouldn't trust with my sperm. you also get condoms with spermacide, so if starts couting her uterus so if any seaman gets in there ... (read in full...)

Broke up because of my mom but we still care about each other

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been broken up for the past 6 months. However, im still crazy about him and i know he still loves me too. We have been broken up for 6 months we have never gone without talking for more than a month. He either calls or i ...

A.   7 January 2009: my girlfriend broke up with her ex for the same reason, her family hated her ex, they said she has changed, that she never went out anymore and that she didn't see her friends either. and all he did was stay at their house the whole day. they neve... (read in full...)

Do I keep waiting for her?

Q.   I am 25 my g/f is 24 we have been together for 10 yrs we have two kids an 8 yr old and a 3 yr old. In august she decided she wanted to leave didnt say anything to me just left for 2 weeks i finally convinced her to come back home and try to work ...

A.   7 January 2009: eish... this situation sucks because she feels like she has lost out on the best years of her life. she feels she couldn't be a party freak or do anything like flirt and go out with friends and being hit on. girls like feeling wanted, and... (read in full...)

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