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writes:There is a girl i love, i stay in different country from her. I meet on dating site just 4 months before i travel back to my country to meet her.The first day we sex she get pregnant, now i am back to the country i work. And i do not intend to get married to her because i will be traveling to another country to continue my studies and i can not leave at back then in my country, because i might spend 2-3 years outside my countryI do not know what to do now, either i should marry her or take care of the baby, because we never really have time to know each other more better because to me i feel i am too young to get married to her.I think if i should marry her i might quarrel and fight with her, and i must cheat her very well. Please advice me on what i should do about this marriage or step to take Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): If you have no feelings for this woman then tell her. Dont give her false hope that you have feelings for her. But you should take responsiblity for your child.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 February 2010):
You can't just play with her feelings. If you don't want to marry her, then don't marry her. But make sure you support the child. You don't want to be seen as a bad father.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): you shouldnt play with someone's feelings and to avoid the responsibility.
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