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writes:Ok there is a girl that I really really like I've only known her for 6 months but it feels like I've known her for years I have told her that I like her but she never tells me how she feels towards me this has me unsettled I don't think it's for me to ask her how she feels about me back and I want to be with her and I believe that I can be loyal respectfull and trustfull as I have been all the time with her if the reader of this can help in any way please I will truely appreciate it Reply to this Question
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reader, RIKI93dw +, writes (22 August 2010):
RIKI93dw is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys I will read all of these and consider all options
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Okay, well if you know that she was flattered thats a start!! It is true though the only way your gonna find out how she feels is if you ask her, the thing is if she doesnt have those sort of feelings for you back are you okay with just being friends?
i would say give it a god, if your friendship is tight, then you wont have anything to lose anyway xx
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reader, RIKI93dw +, writes (18 August 2010):
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I told her that I really really like her and she said thanks but I kno how she says thanks so when I got the text she seemed flattered In a away. It wasn't news for her when I said she already knew none of my friends had to be geniuses to kno I have feelings for her
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (18 August 2010):
so when you actually told her you liked her , how did you say it? and what did she reply back?? xx
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reader, RIKI93dw +, writes (18 August 2010):
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sorry for not sayin earlier me and her r not dating but we hang out alot and we enjoy each others company and txt alot regrettably that's how I told her that I hav feelings for her I know it was stupid especially when I saw her 3 hours before but I explained why and she understood it's jus my past in exspressing the emotion I feel for her has never gone well and I was scared
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reader, RIKI93dw +, writes (18 August 2010):
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she considers me a friend stupidly and I kno this I told her how I feel about by text about 3 hours after seeing her I told her that way as I have fears from my past regarding sumthin similar I kno I must tell her in person and I probably shouldve said it earlier but me and her r not dating sorry for the confusion
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reader, Blod +, writes (18 August 2010):
 If you want to know how she feels, then you'll have to ask. It doesn't matter if you're shy or if it's not your place. Asking her is the only way you'll get proper answers. Knowing how she feels about you would allow you to take the step or move on.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 So, how have you been telling her you like her? Have you been hanging out and just blurted out, "I really like you!"? Things like that?Because I think HOW you tell a girl you like her is important. Girls tend to be very attuned to language and social situations. Having someone declare "I like you!" and then wait for your reaction is 1) unromantic, 2) kinda awkward and embarrassing, 3) like a business transaction (see #1). I understand it's hard to take the leap without knowing whether or not she feels the same way toward you, but I think you may want to consider asking her out on a date. Even in the year 2010, a girl likes to feel like a guy is brave and manly enough to ask her out on a nice date. Then again, you said "she never tells me how she feels about me" makes me wonder if you have ANY idea at all how much she likes you, in what kind of way. I mean, do you guys spend time with each other and she appears to like it? Does she smile and say she had a good time and asks when you can get together again? That kind of thing? Does she seem happy in your presence? I know you said you've only known her for 6 months but that it's still time to form a good friendship, or a friendship that will lead to romance. She may enjoy your friendship but just want to be friends...but I have noooo idea how she feels based on your post. Can you give us some more details please?
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reader, romany +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Hiya,
Well I think you need to honest with her, its hard to see the subtle hints when you really want someone, and she may be feeling a bit overwhelmed or just enjoying playing the dating game and keeping you wanting, but if the dating side is really affecting you, and your finding it unsettling instead of exciting, then its time to ask her outright.
If it were me, i'd respect a guy very much if he said, look, i'm gonna be honest, I like you, and I want to be loyal and exclusive to you, will you be my girlfriend.
Hopefully you'll get the answer you want, or she may say, lets date a awhile longer, but whatever the answer is, at least you can put the doubts away, and start enjoying the time you spend together instead of this uncertainty.
Goodluck.
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