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30-35,
*ustaine6
writes:Hey everyone...help a guy in love and in need.I've been seeing this girl a good few months now, and tonight we argued a lot...I got/get very angry about her past (she used to be a drug addict), I feel like i'll always come second to the need she felt for her 'fix' or whatever.Anyway, I told her i'd been lying about doing hard drugs myself as a way to deal with her past (complicated i know, but im screwed up), and she went crazy, since then we've been arguing and i keep telling her i love her but she just won't listen.We've been through a lot together and I really love her, how do i get her back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): Also, when you tell her all what softballplayer suggested you to tell her, you look at her with the most sincerest eyes. Look directly at her, don't move your eyes when you tell this. Also, have a firm voice when you tell her this stuff. And if you find it appropiate, hug her. All of this will make her feel so secure and will probably calm down and listen to you.
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 Tell her that you know you messed up and talk it out. Tell her you were angry about her past and since you couldnt change it you said some things that you didnt need to. Be honest with her and let her know how much you care. Its times like these when a girl needs to know that she is cared about the most. Sounds crazy I know. The only you can do from this point is just be completely honest with her and promise her you will stay this way. Good luck && take care =]
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