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writes: I have been dating this man for a year now. we used to get along perfectly but he cheated and i triped we went through some rough times because he would leave alone the other wemon and it was driving me to act crazy. athough all this has happened he is still a wonderfull man and i would love to make this relationship work. he seems to feel like he dosent even like me any more becaus of my insucurities he has caused. I try every day to make it work. how! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (3 May 2006):
 RJGirl is obviously bitter about a past relationship. If you love someone that deep and he loves you keep it. This is only a test for your relationship. If he is willing to make it work and he has taken the proper steps to make it work let it work. You have understand that you took him back and he has to know that too. You have to learn to deal with your insecurities and he has to except the fact that you will have some. Everbody makes mistakes and if it weren't for them we could never learn an progress. Perfect people please cast the first stone.
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reader, wonder2 +, writes (3 May 2006):
wonder2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do understand that thats the way most people see it but he is what i want and he has changed his ways. so is there no way it can work? Is there a way I can get that spark back in the relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): get over this guy, let yourself heal, and then find a new one. he may not be a bad guy, but he's not the guy for you, and you're not the girl for him. when two people are right for each other, it's not this much work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): Oops, I meant likes YOU because of IT. Sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): This man is not worth working things out with. It may seem impossible right now, but you can certainly find a better guy. Even if you could move on with him, you'd never be able to forget what he's done. It's not fair to you to be stuck in a relationship where you have no trust for the man and he barely even likes it because of you. You deserve so much better. Dump him. Move on. It's really what you ought to do. You can take this advice or not, that's up to you, but in your shoes, I would end it. You deserve a relationship in which you can be happy and know that your man isn't going to cheat on you. I really hope everything works out okay for you. Good luck!
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