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writes:I am a 34 year old male that likes to have sex, i have had a few different partners over the years, some i can keep it hard for extended periods, other times it gets almost hard but still able to satisfy, other times he just don't work at all... It's like he has a literal mind of his own... Any Ideas as to what might be the problem?
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (5 May 2010):
 They really aren't very dependable pieces of equipment, at least not after you're 15.
In my experience, some of it is physical -- if you're tired or stressed, for example, it can easily affect the quality of an erection. Alcohol doesn't generally help, either.
The mental side is huge, too. I experienced complete and abject failure for a period of several weeks when I knew the girl was waaay more into me. She was ready to go on the first date, saying she loved me; knowing she was a virgin, my conscience wasn't going to let anything happen until I could plausibly feel I loved her back. That's an extreme example, but so much of sex is mental, and if your subconscious has a reservation for some reason, things aren't going to work as well as they might.
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reader, wantinganswers +, writes (5 May 2010):
wantinganswers is verified as being by the original poster of the question I know not many men are WILLING to admit this problem and talk about it openly but i figured i might as well see if i can get any feedback on the subject
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): I wonder ,why is that.. I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM,AND I TRIED MANY THERAPIES. Im in a relationship, and it is totally unavailable sometimes. Soon ,i will lose my girlfriend.I hope you will find an answer to this totally weird situation. What do you think why does it work with some,and not others?
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