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Part of me really wants revenge and really likes the boy, the other part doesn't want to hurt my friend.

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Question - (12 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, I really like a guy, and he likes me too. The problem is that one of my friends also likes him.

I know there's rules about not dating a guy who your friend likes too, but it's much more complicated. When I was still completely in love with my ex (which she was well aware of) she snogged him and she promised she would never do it again, but now everytime they are together, they do it.

So part of me really wants revenge and really likes the boy, the other part doesn't want to hurt my friend.

I don't know what to do, help! x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007):

thanks for your help. I think i will go for it :] x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

Go for it! If you like him then what is holding you back. Never do these things as part of revenge. Forget about your friend snogging your ex, he is your EX!!! Let it go. But do go after this new one, even if she likes him as well, she can't have them all!!

Take care

xx

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2007):

maxsteel86 agony auntWell your friend doesn't seem to have a problem with doing this kinda crap to you, why should you? But more importantly, if you like this guy then go for it, dont get with him just for revenge cos that really sucks and is cruel to him. But definitely dont hold back cos of your friend who doesn't follow these 'rules' either

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A female reader, lexie United States +, writes (13 March 2007):

Well i see that you are a very trust worthy friend for trying to help her feelings even though she did not.. but that shows that your tha more mature one so i would go out with him definitely, i mean she does all of that with your ex....

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