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anonymous
writes:After being in a nervous break down, and he not letting me talk to my family and friends, i searched companionship in my brother in law accidently, my brother in law was always there for me even when i was sick he would take care of me we got so close that he even got to see my cry to my familys pictures,we were like best friends, i got with my hubby 3 months after i turned 15, and he was 18yrs at the time, and my brother in law is only a year older than me and we had great friendship, that he would be like my prince and i was his danzel in distress, then we got even closer we ended up making love that was the greatest day of my life, but then i was so ashamed of what happened that it ruined our friendship and we dont talk no more but everytime my hubby has sex with i imagine is my brother in law im confused please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): i myself have been in that position a few years back. you need to be honest with yourself, ask yourselff because you have very strong feelings for someone else are you only seeing the bad in your hubby? and i must say it is very rare that the gass is actually greener on the other side. you need to make a decision, if your brother in law was not on the scene would you be happy with your hubby? or would you be forever hoping that night in shining armor is gonna come rescue you. if that is the case you will never be truly happy within your marriage. its funny cos i wrote my own problem on here very recently which is very similiar. the advice i was given was regardless whether you have feelings for another man or not, you need to be by yourself to understand exactly what it is you want. too many people envovled can cloud you thoughts and true feelings. be thinking of you i hope you find your answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): i myself have been in that position a few years back. you need to be honest with yourself, ask yourselff because you have very strong feelings for someone else are you only seeing the bad in your hubby? and i must say it is very rare that the grass is actually greener on the other side. you need to make a decision, if your brother in law was not on the scene would you be happy with your hubby? or would you be forever hoping that night in shining armor is gonna come rescue you. if that is the case you will never be truly happy within your marriage. its funny cos i wrote my own problem on here very recently which is very similar. the advice i was given was regardless whether you have feelings for another man or not, you need to be by yourself to understand exactly what it is you want. too many people involved can cloud you thoughts and true feelings. be thinking of you i hope you find your answer
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