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writes:My ex and I split up a little while back. All throughout our year ling relationship, she desperately tried to get him back. Now, through photos on Facebook, it seems she has got her wish. Hundreds of photos of them doing stuff together, amoungst other stuff, but I know alot of it is so fake, I know she is doing it to get to me, to basically say "ha, I've got him back". Because for some reason, she always had a big rivalry against me. I don't even know her, but she's always been in competition with me.Most of the photos on Facebook are her with him, fishing. That's his passion, and she HATED it throughout their relationship, he said it used to upset him that she wouldn't share his passion. I did, throughout our relationship, I would regularly go with him and get involved, and she knew that. So I don't know if she is going fishing with him to try to get one up on me, or to try to get him back, but it's so FAKE.I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi hun, I agree with the posts on here, just ignore them. I know it's hard to when it's in your face, but why torture yourself by keeping looking at them? They aren't worth your time or attention. Best of luck for the future xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Some people are just so childish and pathetic she is treating him like a prize and he is stupid enough to go back with that fake loser, just leave them to it darling she will get bored when she realises your not botherd and probably dump him again, but no doubt when he gets another girl she will want him back and he will go back.
Just leave them to it forget about him forget about her put pics up of you and your friends having a good time and she will see your not bothered, your better off without him he is weak and willing to go back to her she is like a cat toying with a mouse. You will get someone alot better then him just make sure she doesnt get her claws into him by telling him just what she is like.
Good luck sweetie doent give up just stay positive and be happy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): My ex 'his fling' she puts up pics of my fiancee and her together..but they are old pics and you can tell nothing is recent. She knows i see the pics and writes comments to disturb me. At first it got to me sooooo bad and i was so angry. But i learned to ignore it and it will go away. They will get bored and move on to another victim. That is the sick game these immature beasts play. Trust me I know how you feel. Let them play there sick games together. You are worth much more than to play high school games. With me, he had a fling w/ her and now she's pregnant with his baby (so she says). So thats real hard for me.Ignore her and show her you are the bigger and better person!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 In my opinion, their posting photos on Facebook is not what matters. His going back to her all the time is. He is obviously not done with her. Well, that's so good: now you're free to find someone who will consider you number one. Think of it this way.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (21 February 2008):
The best way to p**s her off is to ignore it. If she has done all this just to annoy you and get you all wound up, then imagine how frustrated she will be if she gets no response at all. It will completely take the wind out of her sails and as he is your ex it does not matter anyway.
At the end of the day it does not matter what she thinks or why, only what you think. You have control of that and can decide if you will allow someone else to influence how you will feel or react.
Whatever you do don't try to compete with her as that is playing her game. Change the rules by doing your own thing with no thought for what she will think.
All the best
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