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writes:I've been with my bf for 6 months but ive always had this suspicion hes still seeing his ex, I know hes still friends with her but i cant think of a way of finding out without saying something which i dont really want to do as if its completely untrue then i'd imagine it wouldnt go down well. The more and more i think about it I cant get it out my head and i wonder sometimes if im being paranoid.Does anyone have any ideas? thanks
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 October 2010):
You need to have more proof. Simple as that. There is nothing that suggests they're still seeing each other, except for them being friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is still really good friends with her and I know she is part of his biking group which is why i think im being even more paranoid....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2010):
If you have no proof, then it's your own insecurities that are getting to you. Whilst the post below has a good idea, if you're found out at all then you'll be in trouble. I'd sit down by yourself and really think about whether he's cheating, or you're paranoid. Are there secret texts? Secret meetings? Hidden calls?
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Have a friend go with you and follow him discreetly. See who he meets and where he goes. Just a thought. I wouldnt accuse him, but usually the gut feelings are on target in my experience.
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