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36-40,
*ianchi
writes:*MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity*My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it at that. i feel like in our sex lives something is missing. i can tell she is growing bored. she says she is too sensitive for me to do oral, or touch her there. she just enjoy grinding on me and short sex. come on! when i bring up how i can please her better or what i can do that will turn her on more, she tells me that i do everything......really? I feel like i have so many limits because she doesnt want to open up to me. i dont know how to talk to her because it gets me no where. any advice?Also I had just been informed my girlfrined hates me eating her out, and touching her pussy. But when i do it she doesnt say no, she enjoys it. It seems she is just keeping me from doing anything to her but just sex. I have had some problems with our relationship. Its on edge, and i have a gut feeling its gonna end bad. Could this be a sign of detachment?.
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reader, HelloooNurse +, writes (29 April 2010):
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. What I'm saying is, you can suggest different sexual activities to her, and just see what she says. If she doesn't like the idea, then don't push it. Why are you just limited to anal sex and oral sex? Why not suggest other things, such as toys, mutual masturbation, or porn? By the way, you can tell she's growing bored, solely your observation, or have you asked her? It's all about communication!! Sure she may allow you to do oral, and she says she hates it. Maybe she does hate it. Some people tolerate sexual activities they don't actually like just to please their partner. Just TALK to her. Are you sure you're not the one getting bored? Try this: "Babe, I've been wanting to try a few things... And if you don't want to, that's fine. But I'd also like to know if there's anything you'd like to try." Or if that's too formal and serious, try talking dirty and finding out what she wants, what turns her on. Good luck!
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