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writes: hey this is regarding my last message and well i can remember what i exactly said and yea, well she has already cheated on me twice and were constantly argueing, and our relationship is getting violent, i feel its her fault for making it violent, but she says its my fault, and im starting to feel like it is my fault, and she completely over-exagerates it, like "my bf hits me like 7 times a week", and i do know she likes a guy at her school, so this is open to everyone, and i hope alot of people reply, what should i do? what would you do or did do?
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (14 December 2006):
 sorry man, but...im seeing this relationship going down already... there is not supposed to be hitting at all(even if you did hit her), she did cheat on you, not once, but twice. geroff the relationship, pronto. please. no offense, but its pretty bad.. you dont need a girl like that. plenty of girls out there, and some much more better than the current. she's treating you like sh*t, and maybe you as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): If there is violence involved in a relationship, doesn't that already clue you in that the relationship is at its ends? Not only that, but she also cheated twice, AND there have ongoing arguments that doesn't seem like the effort to patch things up is worth it. Unless you see something that none of anyone else sees, and desires to stay together with her for some heaven-forsakened reason...
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 December 2006):
 Are you hitting her at all?
If you are, there's no excuse. I don't care how much she's cheated, I don't care how bad your arguements get. There is no excuse to make it violent. Clearly this relationship isn't healthy for either of you and it's time to split. She's not treating you well, and if you're hitting her - AT ALL. I don't care if you only did it ONCE, that's TOO MUCH.
If you're not hitting her - why are you with her anyways? She isn't doing you any good. Move on.
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