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writes: Well i just started a new job about 3 weeks ago and Im in a little bit of a situation. I have a thing for the bosses brother and he feels the same about me, we have been sneaking around, and I am starting to fall for him. The problem is my boss told another employee that if I started dating anyone here he would fire me. He has never said this to me personally and he could have just been saying this to that certain person in attempt to keep him away from me, he has tried repatedly to take me out but i keep turning him down. But now i am dead scared. I absolutley love my job and like i said i am falling hard for this guy...i dont want to loose either. please help.
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reader, candycanecindy +, writes (26 December 2006):
The boss has no control over your love life espically if its his own brother. Even if you do get caught his brother if he is to love you will try to protect you and persue his brother from firing you.
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (16 December 2006):
 This may sound a bit paranoid, but could they be in league with each other and have been testing you?
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reader, lovelikethis +, writes (15 December 2006):
ask your boss if it is true. you never said if his bro worked there, but i assume that he does. but you should find out the rules before you loose your chance with this guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Wow, only three weeks into a new job and you have already set your sites on the bosses brother and been sneaking around knowing that it is against the company policy to date co-workers....good job!
I know what I would do if I were in your shoes, I would stop acting like I am in heat and cool things off immediately with the bosses brother, you don't know this guy at all, if he is sneaking around with a new employee of his company after only three weeks of her being on the job he sounds like a real player, and I bet he tries this with all of the pretty girls not just you....and guess what he does not care about you keeping your job, so I guess you might want to teat how committed he is to your relationship, offer to quit your job in order to date him and see if he puts a ring on your finger or asks you to move in.
My guess is he will just say great and will back off, but hey maybe he is head over heels in love because you are the it girl for him. Or maybe you both are just fanatasizing about your feelings and where they are located.
Dare you try? Are you willing to start hitting the pavement and looking for another job?
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